Venting I suck at talking to women

[Sadgirl121]

As a gay woman, women scare me hahaa I can't talk to them most the time either

 

[Davey40210]

I used to be good in talking with women but these days I just don't care anymore. You have to be happy and funny and I just can't do it if its not my ex. I miss her so much

 

[Message In A Bottle]

Don't ever even remotely give them the notion that your are simping. Even if they like you back. I apologize for using that word and not neccessarily calling you one. It's just the only word I know that explains what women do NOT want.

Just keep your mind and heart set on your life goals and I can assure that you luck with women will increase significantly. Let them come to and compete for you.

Soo…your solution is for the woman to be the simp then? Yeah…no. 0/10 advice. I may not be some relationship expert, but it's frustrating when someone puts more effort into a relationship (of any kind for that matter) than you do. If a woman likes you back and you get into a relationship with her - you both have been granted full access to be the biggest advocates (simps) to each other. You should be going out of your way to show that this person means something to you. That you desire them by showing how much you love them through compliments, acts of service, and sweet gestures. And NOT waiting for the other person to make every move for you. Even during the time you haven't entered the relationship, no one should be competing for anyone unless everyone's putting in the work to make it happen. Otherwise, it's doomed from the start.

The way this is worded, it sounds like you want the man to be up on a pedestal while the woman grovels at his feet in praise. That's not how it works either.