snowlance
Ticking Time Bomb
- Sep 8, 2023
- 203
I've decided I'm gonna go inpatient
Or try it out at least, I can always back out as long as it's voluntary
Or try it out at least, I can always back out as long as it's voluntary
My mom is actually worse than my dad. Way worse. She doesn't do anything but she commands authority and uses my dad as a weapon to get her way. My dad won't accept me leaving without insurance tho so that's why she can't kick me out. She's tried to back out of the insurance several times with different excuses and I have to keep telling her "what am I supposed to do then? I cant drive to the homeless shelter without insurance" And then she huffs and starts trying again. Idk what is up with her or my dad at this point...Everything is about control and power and the more you let people control you the more they want. You mentioned your brother in a much earlier post, how do you get on with him? Your dad sounds a big problem but at least your mum is standby you a bit even if she is making a massive deal out of it, putting you on her insurance, it's not like she's donating you a kidney or anything. Sometimes we have to just suck things up now and again and live by other people rules but this is where you have to learn to bend the rules to your favour without getting people to breaking point. Letting people think they are in control without them actually being in control is a fine art. At the end of the day, just for now, being at home is better than being in your car or a homeless shelter. Keep safe pal
My mom has actually kept track of everything they use it all against me too. Any gift we've gotten ever, if she wants to use it she'll say "I bought that for you with our money so technically it's mine" and she's kept track of every time I've had to borrow money from them and expects me to pay it all back.Everything is about control and power and the more you let people control you the more they want. You mentioned your brother in a much earlier post, how do you get on with him? Your dad sounds a big problem but at least your mum is standby you a bit even if she is making a massive deal out of it, putting you on her insurance, it's not like she's donating you a kidney or anything. Sometimes we have to just suck things up now and again and live by other people rules but this is where you have to learn to bend the rules to your favour without getting people to breaking point. Letting people think they are in control without them actually being in control is a fine art. At the end of the day, just for now, being at home is better than being in your car or a homeless shelter. Keep safe pal