i know its wrong.....

[Life_and_Death]

my friend needs me right now in a bad way but if im dead i wont care

does it matter?

(rhetorical, no offense but i really cant be bothered with stupid answers right now, i feel like shit)

 

[Brave_heart]

my friend needs me right now in a bad way but if im dead i wont care

does it matter?

(rhetorical, no offense but i really cant be bothered with stupid answers right now, i feel like shit)

Yes.

You started with, "my friend needs me".

 

[Life_and_Death]

Yes.

You started with, "my friend needs me".

honestly im not even sure i can help her. im literally holding on by threads (in reference to her problem not me)

 

[Brave_heart]

honestly im not even sure i can help her. im literally holding on by threads (in reference to her problem not me)

I'm sorry you're holding on by threads. I'm here if you need to PM. I'm sure you can help her or she wouldn't have told you.. She apparently trusts you and values you.

 

[Life_and_Death]

I'm sorry you're holding on by threads. I'm here if you need to PM. I'm sure you can help her or she wouldn't have told you.. She apparently trusts you and values you.

im not sure how much shed want me to go into it but rough details
her and i are basically cut from the same cloth when it comes to our disorders and mental state. recently some stuff happened and shes blaming herself and im trying to show her that its not her fault in a gentle way, but im not sure shes getting it

 

[LastLoveLetter]

You say you are unsure you can help and that you are barely hanging on. While her needs matter, yours do too. It is okay to acknowledge the fact that you may not be in a position to help, and to have boundaries regarding how much energy, support and time you give to your friend and to others, especially when you are struggling too.

 

[Life_and_Death]

You say you are unsure you can help and that you are barely hanging on. While her needs matter, yours do too. It is okay to acknowledge the fact that you may not be in a position to help, and to have boundaries regarding how much energy, support and time you give to your friend and to others, especially when you are struggling too.

its just the day it is. and what am i suppose to do when she has no one else