I have no hope anymore I am ever going to find love and happiness

[EvisceratedJester]

I don't think op is putting too much pressure on herself. She is 27. Most people at this age already experienced romance, sex and are now surviving on their own. It's natural that she should have already experienced at least half of this, otherwise there is definitely something wrong.

If someone reach 27 with nothing, it's likely that life will only get worse, because body will get slower, as the brain; genetic diseases will appear and beauty disappear.

Elderly people who still achieve something usually had a normal youth, not crippled like op. Its far more difficult to achieve anything at old age when you had no foundation before hand.

No offense, but everyhting you said is just a massive cope. I just hate it when they tell me that I haven't achieved anything because "my time hasn't come yet and i shouldnt pressure myself". Damn, my psychologist keeps saying that to me and i hate it. I just tell her - 'No, I'm late and my time won't come, because I'm already past it'

Who's to say that those peopme didn't have issues during their youth similar to or even more severe than what the OP has gone through? It feels like you are just projecting your issues onto my post. Not everyone accomplishes things in life at the same rate so there isn't a point in the OP beating themself up over it. It's fairly normal for people to move at different paces in life as a result of all sorts of circumstances. There are literally cases of people who don't get to learn how to read until adulthood for crying outloud. The OP shouldn't have to feel bad over any of this.

It feels like your gripes with my post gave more to do with your feelings, rather than with the feelinsg of the OP. If you want to whine about about your psychologist then do so under a different thread, please and thank you.

 

[Morte]

Who's to say that those peopme didn't have issues during their youth similar to or even more severe than what the OP has gone through? It feels like you are just projecting your issues onto my post. Not everyone accomplishes things in life at the same rate so there isn't a point in the OP beating themself up over it. It's fairly normal for people to move at different paces in life as a result of all sorts of circumstances. There are literally cases of people who don't get to learn how to read until adulthood for crying outloud. The OP shouldn't have to feel bad over any of this.

It feels like your gripes with my post gave more to do with your feelings, rather than with the feelinsg of the OP. If you want to whine about about your psychologist then do so under a different thread, please and thank you.

At least I'm projecting my life, which so far has many points in common with the OP's. While you are projecting other people's lives into op, people you don't even know about; literally quoting a random comment from an elderly person lol

There are people who win the lottery, that doesn't mean it's logical to expect this to happen to someone else. Statistically, anyone who cannot read by adulthood will be a financial failure in life. People at such situation who manage to turn things around are due to very specific circumstances and it's not fair to say someone is in "their time" just because outliers like them happen.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

At least I'm projecting my life, which so far has many points in common with the OP's. While you are projecting other people's lives into op, people you don't even know about; literally quoting a random comment from an elderly person lol

There are people who win the lottery, that doesn't mean it's logical to expect this to happen to someone elae. Statistically, anyone who cannot read by the age of 30 will be a financial failure in life. People até such situation who manage to turn things around are due to very specific circumstances and it's not fair to say someone is in "their time" just because outliers like these happen.

Dude, if you want to whine about your issues, do so on another thread. You going around projecting your pessimism onto someone who is in a state where it they are vulnerable isn't helpful at all. Its just pathetic.

 

[Morte]

Dude, if you want to whine about your issues, do so on another thread. You going around projecting your pessimism onto someone who is in a state where it they are vulnerable isn't helpful at all. Its just pathetic.

You are just coping and thats no help. The fact that you find me pessimistic for saying the obvious and what is statically common demonstrates that you are simply deluded.

You apparently also consider everyone who contradicts you as "whinning", that's pathetic.
If I'm not treating you with a lack of respect, I have the right to comment wherever I want, the forum is free and your ideas are not some dogma that no one can contest. If you have a problem with this, you're the one who should leave .Just ignore me and get lost.

 

[EvisceratedJester]

You are just coping and thats no help. The fact that you find me pessimistic for saying the obvious and what is statically common demonstrates that you are simply deluded.

You apparently also consider everyone who contradicts you as "whinning", that's pathetic.
If I'm not treating you with a lack of respect, I have the right to comment wherever I want, the forum is free and your ideas are not some dogma that no one can contest. If you have a problem with this, you're the one who should leave .Just ignore me and get lost.

Okay, whatever man.

 

[Neowise]

People even tell me I am taking a man's masculinity away because I ask men out and it's the role for the man to pursue a woman.

This is bullshit. We live in modern times. I was the one to ask my boyfriend out, and we are together now. We might still be single if I didn't. Afterwars the world didn't stop rotating, so don't let yourself be discouraged by some idiots living in the 50s.