I get verbally attacked everywhere I go........PART 2:Working

[IsThisTheEnd?]

definitely not I'm very humble. I do what I'm told, that's it, I don't know I went through a period of asking doctors if it was my appearance.

It's probably because I'm a loner and most people get jobs through friends or family or something, there just no leg up for me there's no way out from my point of view, I would need to hold the job for a year or more and haven't been able to do that and now I'm probably too old.

it never happened when I was younger.

 

[Commitmentphile101]

You're being very vague.

I agree. OP I have read the words "I don't know" many times in this thread. We need some specifics so we can really understand the relationship dynamics at work and help you better.
Give us just one specific example with lots of details say last week (or the last time this happened) , who was involved, what their job role was, their link to you at work, how it started, how it finished. This is an anonymous site, noone's judging, and noone will know it's you.

They get pissed off - who does she think she is - and they then take every opportunity to point out you're not better than them, or more senior to them, and they make you feel undermined because you're overstepping your place.

I thought OP was male?

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

yeah I guess there's no-way out alive for me, people see a glimpse of your depression and like my other thread kick you when your down, I guess that's how it is.

this is a forum about suicide people are trying to kill themselves, obviously my problems are of no significance in the grand scheme of things, I just wanted some explanation, I don't think I need to justify myself.

 

[Desideratum]

yeah I guess there's no-way out alive for me, people see a glimpse of your depression and like my other thread kick you when your down, I guess that's how it is.

this is a forum about suicide people are trying to kill themselves, obviously my problems are of no significance in the grand scheme of things, I just wanted some explanation, I don't think I need to justify myself.

In my opinion OP it is your physical appearance. A lot of people judge others subconsciously on their appearance. It's human nature unfortunately. The good news is it's not your fault. When they insult you, retaliate. Even if you lose your job you won't lose your dignity.

 

[TheQ22]

I thought OP was male?

No idea, just guessing, or rather thought I'd read female somewhere, might be confusing threads.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

I suppose if your face doesn't fit.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

In my opinion OP it is your physical appearance. A lot of people judge others subconsciously on their appearance. It's human nature unfortunately. The good news is it's not your fault. When they insult you, retaliate. Even if you lose your job you won't lose your dignity.

This could be a very real possibility. Some people just attract certain things in their life as well, whether it be good or bad.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

This could be a very real possibility. Some people just attract certain things in their life as well, whether it be good or bad.

This woman she was a bit crazy but kind of on my side compared me to Donald Trump in terms of drama following me, I don't think she is very well and had some similar problems but her unusual mind gave an interesting analogy.

 

[netrezven]

Why don't dump this "being nice" and do what you want. If they don't like you already give them a reason and make it worse.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

Why don't dump this "being nice" and do what you want. If they don't like you already give them a reason and make it worse.

sorry is that don't be nice
and do what you want
??

 

[Commitmentphile101]

sorry is that don't be nice
and do what you want
??

I think he means , if they already dislike you, they will dislike you whatever you do. So why try hard to be nice?

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

I think he means , if they already dislike you, they will dislike you whatever you do. So why try hard to be nice?

yes it's true.

 

[netrezven]

sorry is that don't be nice
and do what you want
??

kind of, yes