I feel EXTREMELY abandoned after the end of my online relationship

[Crematoryy]

I was discarded worse than a dog, as if I never meant anything. I cry every day at anything that reminds me of the person who was my reason for living.

 

[Afterglow]

I've unfortunately been through something similar.


I built my life around someone online. Not casually. Fully.


I dropped friendships because I thought she needed me more. I stayed up through the night when things were bad for her. I helped her research resources. I walked her through paperwork and getting back into college. I pushed her to apply for disability when she didn't think she deserved it. I listened for hours about her home situation and tried to keep her steady when her dad was volatile.


I made myself her raft.


When she ended up in a psych ward, I was still there. I was answering calls. I was reassuring her. I was trying to keep everything calm and stable on the outside so she didn't have to worry about losing me too.


And then after one small disagreement, literally just me asking for an hour alone, I was blocked everywhere. Phone number. Every platform. She even blocked the mutual friends we made together.


It really makes you question your reality. How can you give that much and be erased that fast?


So when you say you feel discarded, I get it. It's not just the relationship ending. It's the feeling that all the effort, all the care, all the sacrifice, all the hours meant nothing.


She was the one I planned to spend the rest of my life with, and she was gone before I could even say goodbye.


You grieve like this because you cared deeply. That's not a flaw, and you're not worthless by any means.

People are just cruel.

 

[SASU-KE]

And then after one small disagreement, literally just me asking for an hour alone, I was blocked everywhere. Phone number. Every platform. She even blocked the mutual friends we made together.


It really makes you question your reality. How can you give that much and be erased that fast?

Certain people do that sort of thing. But it's certainly them, not you. You're a good friend.

 

[egyptian_baddie]

It doesnt matter if jt was online or offline , both were real, both had a lot of love and compassion. Heartbreak is worst thing that can happen , i am sorry you're going through this just know that your emotions are very valid