flatearth
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- Aug 27, 2020
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i had a boyfriend for about five months last year (lets call him j) and i still think about him. this pains me so much because i really did everything i could to make him happy and it wasn't enough. i stopped being shy and showed him my true self and did everything he asked me to. and it still wasn't enough
after j and i broke up, i wanted to better myself for him. i didn't even want to get back together, i just wanted to be good enough for him; i expanded my music taste, the way i dress and look, and stopped being so loud and was able to carry conversations and even add to them! although they were really basic things, i was really proud of myself and i tried to talk to him. he didn't care and actually got really mad
we were absolutely terrible to each other after this and i remember every insult he told me. my "favorites" are: boring, unfunny, predictable, stupid, annoying, and obsessive and that he never loved me. today i got to add another word to the list: "stalker whore bitch"
i thought it'd be funny to text him about a concert we were supposed to go to a year ago. and he's right, it's disgusting that i would remember such a minuscule detail after a year.
i have to leave him alone, but it irks me every night that i will never be good enough for j. he is average looking and overall, just mediocre.
my friends tell me that i am way better than him but it might be biased because, well, they are my friends haha
at first, i thought the only solution to this was to ctb, but now i realize that i could also just move on
but i don't know how
after j and i broke up, i wanted to better myself for him. i didn't even want to get back together, i just wanted to be good enough for him; i expanded my music taste, the way i dress and look, and stopped being so loud and was able to carry conversations and even add to them! although they were really basic things, i was really proud of myself and i tried to talk to him. he didn't care and actually got really mad
we were absolutely terrible to each other after this and i remember every insult he told me. my "favorites" are: boring, unfunny, predictable, stupid, annoying, and obsessive and that he never loved me. today i got to add another word to the list: "stalker whore bitch"
i thought it'd be funny to text him about a concert we were supposed to go to a year ago. and he's right, it's disgusting that i would remember such a minuscule detail after a year.
i have to leave him alone, but it irks me every night that i will never be good enough for j. he is average looking and overall, just mediocre.
my friends tell me that i am way better than him but it might be biased because, well, they are my friends haha
at first, i thought the only solution to this was to ctb, but now i realize that i could also just move on
but i don't know how