How would you like to be remembered?

[Couchking]

I would like to be remembered as someone who loved everyone and tried their best.

 

[ScorpiusDragon]

I don't want to be remembered. It will be easier that way.

 

[woxihuanni]

With love and regret.

I love life too much to off myself wishing those who made life painful for me perfect happiness.

 

[Readytogo227]

I'd like to be remembered as someone who was selfless and always wanted to be there for others. Just a genuinely good person. I'd also like them to remember me as being funny, bc I enjoy making people laugh at work and wherever I go.

Will that happen? I don't know. I won't be there to see it. But I can still do my best.

 

[eve2004]

I doubt that people will be very surprised, so I hope it passes over quickly and hope to be forgotten soon after. I'm sorry to anyone in advance, particularly my parents, siblings, psychologist and psychiatrist. The last two will be the least surprised of all haha.

I think a lot of us just want to vanish quietly and without disturbing our surroundings. I'm especially adamant about doing as much as I can beforehand to make it easier for whoever has to settle my estate because I know exactly what has to be done.

You should know that whoever is mandated or chosen to settle your estate will be dwelling over you for a long time. At least a year.

 

[burnedCookie]

Honestly I don't want to be remembered.
The people that mattered to me the most are gone so I'd rather be totally forgotten as soon as possible.

 

[Now_And_Then]

I don't want to be remembered , I want to be forgotten

 

[SelfHatingAspie]

I'd like to be remembered as an insufferable asshole. I figure if people remember how much of an asshole I was, they'd be relieved that I'm no longer their problem.

 

[Wayfaerer]

Me being at my best and not at my worst.

 

[Luchs]

I know a lot of people don't care here how they're remembered.
But one important thing I would like to be remember for is my kindness. I honestly gave 100 percent to everybody I've ever ran into in life - everybody from family to my partner to friends. That's part of why I want my suicide to look like an accident - I don't want to be the person that gave up during a rough patch, because this isn't a patch. This is it for me.
How would you like to be remembered, if you do care?

Honestly, I just want to be forgotten by everyone except maybe my family, I want it to be like I never existed.

 

[Xaphous]

A mentally fucked loser that was completely lost in life. Anything else would be a lie.

 

[Pistolero114]

By my music.

 

[nzdarkshark]

I want to be remembered for my kindness, my loyalty. Not the shitty things I've done.

 

[deathwish]

As someone funny and moral with soft hair; honest about her apathy and furious dislike of literally everything but, while as a living human, tried to do well, to do good; as having done some good and not been a total pos; just as important, though, i soo soo want to be understood as having rationally ctb- even if some others can't understand my feelings to get to this place, i want them to understand that i understood, it wasn't illness, it wasn't a mistake. lots of greed here. and these things will be forgotten within a generation but, for those who will remember anything, i hope to convey this, that they'll remember roughly like so.....

 

[EmptySteph62]

I want to be remembered as that girl who always fought her hardest, and to be remembered as someone who loved animals and did her best to help them when other humans won't. I want to be remembered as an amazing vet and a good friend and someone who was always there for everyone else, even when no one was there for me.

 

[StillWaiting]

I dont know. There's nothing unique and good about me for others to remember other than being someone who is always negative.

 

[Mr2005]

There's nothing to indicate if I disappeared tomorrow anyone here would even notice. I'd be lying if I said that doesn't bug me even a little. I've always done my best to help others. As for elsewhere I don't have much to do with people anymore, I'd rather they remembered who I used to be

 

[iiii5555]

When you say "How would you like to be remembered", do you mean "How would you like to be reified by the artifical, slavish symbolic world"?

 

[azucaramargo]

I hope everyone who ever spurned or mistreated me romantically enters a deep, dark, flesh-eating depression, and never emerges.

 

[Pistolero114]

There's nothing to indicate if I disappeared tomorrow anyone here would even notice. I'd be lying if I said that doesn't bug me even a little. I've always done my best to help others. As for elsewhere I don't have much to do with people anymore, I'd rather they remembered who I used to be.

There's was a TV show I was watching which focused on how people might get to pick a form or time from their lives that were good for them. And they could assume the form that means the most to them.

So theoretically you could be pick a form in how you want to remember yourself. And after all and in just my opinion. When you move from this realm to the next I would think that choosing how you want to remember yourself is paramount to finding your niche that you loved and live that loop in an ephemeral sense.

By now y'all must think I'm nutz. But it makes sense to me

 

[Dartz]

I'd rather be forgotten entirely by everyone and everything

 

[peacefully31425]

I'd rather little notice is given to my death. Everyone should just forget me.

 

[Futility]

Part of me does not want to be remembered at all because I feel I should have never existed in the first place.

Another part of me wants to be remembered for at least doing my best and dying for something I believe in, even if that just so happens to be for the right to die.

 

[Numbtopain97]

Nothing. I want to be forgotten.

 

[stellabelle]

Just as the adventurer, the lost soul, the traveler.

 

[Sweet emotion]

I've thought about this a lot. I got sick at 20 years old with Complex Regional Pain Syndrome which is the highest ranking pain condition in medical history. I'm 34 now. I'd like to be remembered as a girl who persevered and was relentless. I want to be remembered as someone who was mentally strong. I want to be remembered as someone who had a passion for life and who brought a little bit of joy to everyone's life I touched. I want to be remembered as a good daughter, a good granddaughter, a good cousin. I don't have any siblings. I want to be remembered as passionate and funny and beautiful.