Help How To Say Goodbye Without Saying Goodbye To Your Friends?

[itsmeagain]

I'm going to have delayed emails and suicide messages to so many of the people I love, but my problem is that... I want to be able to say goodbye without saying goodbye to them. Without giving them the clue.

I also don't want to make them feel like they should have caught on, either. I could probably clear that up in my notes to them, but... what do you guys do to say goodbye? Do you give weird hypotheticals? I can't think of too many ways and this is the only place I can ask.

 

[itsmeagain]

Killing yourself is good enough for a "goodbye."

It is a goodbye, but I don't want it to be the last a few of the good people I have.... to have as a last goodbye.

 

[TheSuicidalEccentric]

It is a goodbye, but I don't want it to be the last a few of the good people I have.... to have as a last goodbye.

Sorry I said that. It was very rude. I'm just stressed to death and angry tonight over personal issues. It's really hard.

 

[itsmeagain]

Sorry I said that. It was very rude. I'm just stressed to death and angry tonight over personal issues. It's really hard.

It's okay love. We are all going through the toughest shit nobody has ever gone through. PM me or join the gen chat? We can talk. <3

 

[HorribleFeelings1]

I'm going to have delayed emails and suicide messages to so many of the people I love, but my problem is that... I want to be able to say goodbye without saying goodbye to them. Without giving them the clue.

I also don't want to make them feel like they should have caught on, either. I could probably clear that up in my notes to them, but... what do you guys do to say goodbye? Do you give weird hypotheticals? I can't think of too many ways and this is the only place I can ask.

Spend time with them, make one more amazing memory with them, let them know that they make you happy and they are loved by you. You can say something like "I'm gonna be moving soon" as an excuse. You can give a speech to them saying how much you love them.

 

[itsmeagain]

Spend time with them, make one more amazing memory with them, let them know that they make you happy and they are loved by you. You can say something like "I'm gonna be moving soon" as an excuse. You can give a speech to them saying how much you love them.

I think I'll do that <3. Look at our profile pics! twinsies!

 

[Lorntroubles]

Be careful. You may get disappointed how others react to you wanting to leave or being distressed. They may not show the care or commitment as you expected. Take care of you, first. Be sweet if you may but don't overextend yourself. I'm in the same boat.

 

[itsmeagain]

Be careful. You may get disappointed how others react to you wanting to leave or being distressed. They may not show the care or commitment as you expected. Take care of you, first. Be sweet if you may but don't overextend yourself. I'm in the same boat.

I'm not going to show them the hard parts. That's why I'm going to probably dance around it.

 

[Lorntroubles]

I'm not going to show them the hard parts. That's why I'm going to probably dance around it.

Unless you specifically say suicide or how you won't live much longer, they will brush you off. I will keep my eye on this post. I have a little heart in me that wants the best circumstances to align with ctb.

 

[itsmeagain]

Unless you specifically say suicide or how you won't live much longer, they will brush you off. I will keep my eye on this post. I have a little heart in me that wants the best circumstances to align with ctb.

That's... really difficult to say. That's why I made this post, really. To see if any genius has found a way to walk that line in perfect balance. It may not be possible, but I think @HorribleFeelings1 had an amazing plan.