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- Jul 27, 2018
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Can't say I saw the cheap humour in sensitive situations because that's the kind of thing that I would pick up on and be equally pissed about. If you see something like that just call it out calmly, a genuine person will be surprisingly reasonable if you're not rude about it.
I think he is just confident in what he believes, if you trust that you have something valuable to contribute to an important issue and can do so in a way that makes it appear that you believe what you're saying, is that so bad?
I think "jumping the gun" is really the only issue here, everything else is a petty personal gripe and needn't be brought up here, just as I don't speak about my gripes with someone else unless they're here to defend themselves. I'd say the reason he causes a big ruckus is because chances are if he or somebody else doesn't, then vulnerable ppl are going to get preyed on via pms or some other imaginary scenario, since it has happened at least once it's understandable to be concerned and some people may think they have more invested in stopping scumbags than the moderators who are just trying to keep the forum tidy.
Again, not justifying anything just trying to give a bit of an explanation. It's easy to get wrapped up in concerns about ppls motives and become hypervigilant and distrustful of the smallest things.
Anyway, I just really don't think he's as bad a dude as some people are assuming very quickly, and by requesting a ban and taking some time for himself, I think he's shown great maturity in this situation too. (I won't derail anymore sowwy)
generally found his gallows humor rather comforting
but yeah, will stop derailing now.