Help how do you like fix blowing up on someone you like?

[coolgal82]

i got in a kinda disagreement with my friends and while i was really mad someone i really really like became like subject to it now he's like understandably mad about it and idk what to do i dont wanna lose him but idk how to like explain to him really that those werent my like real feelings and just how i felt like at the time and i was just like lashing out, idk. idk why im like this or what this is or how i can stop this, and this kinda stuff has happened before but im not usually as direct with it. how do i stop doing this and how do i like repair the damage and shit?

 

[Quietist]

Just apologize. That's all you can really do. It's up to them to accept it or not.

 

[sanctionedusage]

its not unusual for people to blow up at their friends and regret it/not even mean it. just explain it how you'd explain it here and apologize. if it was really recent it might take a few days for him to cool off and forgive it though

 

[coolgal82]

its not unusual for people to blow up at their friends and regret it/not even mean it. just explain it how you'd explain it here and apologize. if it was really recent it might take a few days for him to cool off and forgive it though

the main person im worrying about isnt just a friend hes more croomf like i really like him and wanna eventually marry him and like idk i dont want himt o hate me and not like me ss much after this

 

[Deepdense]

You should apologize for what it was that you said and explain to him that you were frustrated and that you didn't mean what you said. You could also offer to buy him dinner after depending on how it goes.

 

[maylurker]

the main person im worrying about isnt just a friend hes more croomf like i really like him and wanna eventually marry him and like idk i dont want himt o hate me and not like me ss much after this

i dont think it would be such a big deal dont overthink it so much

 

[sanctionedusage]

the main person im worrying about isnt just a friend hes more croomf like i really like him and wanna eventually marry him and like idk i dont want himt o hate me and not like me ss much after this

this kind of thing is gonna happen many, many more times if you actually do end up marrying him lol. its gonna be totally fine. i think you're being harsher on yourself than even he would be, especially if you're closer than just friends