how do u cope being ugly

[notuntilperfection]

Not true depends on bome age mine is young

ok if you say so. Good luck

 

[SadErection]

ok if you say so. Good luck

Thanks and if it fails you know why I'm here don't you? Do I seem like that hopeful of a person? What's wrong with trying when there are results on people under 25. 25 is when bones fuse not 13 btw.

 

[Jumper Geo]

nope u can't be beautiful with a recessed tiny chin. some ppl gets surgery but it costs money. and not every result will look like this.

I agree with what other people have said, I think they both look pretty but if that is her after surgery it does make a difference and well worth saving up for to have the operation, I would speak to your family and tell them your plans then contact your doctor to see if there are any schemes available to help you if not try to get free consultations with plastic surgeons and get the cost of surgery so at least you know how much you need to pay for the operation.

Good luck.

Cheers

Geo

 

[favourite]

People looking for a partner always strive for someone more beautiful then themselves, or at least at the same level. Of course, there are a lot of mismatched couples, but love there is usually one-sided, it ends very soon, one person is just using another as 'temporary partner' until finding someone better, etc. That's how we are wired. I can't blame anyone for not wanting me, because I wouldn't want me either. I just hate the bad luck that made me turn like this.

 

[NomadicWolf382]

How I'm coping right now. Just the fact that my mother tried a little bit and made a face of disgust afterwards, makes it so much better. :)

 

[Jumper Geo]

nope u can't be beautiful with a recessed tiny chin. some ppl gets surgery but it costs money. and not every result will look like this.

Hiya,

I thought about you after seeing this newspaper report, in the UK if your depressed you may be able to get surgery paid for by the NHS I don't know what Country your from but if your not in the UK maybe there are similar Charities who offer help and financial support.

Mum-of-three, 37, faked depression to get £7k nose job on NHS

A MUM faked depression to get a £7,000 nose job on the NHS – but has slammed moaners as “just jealous”. Brazen Carla Bellucci, 37, claims she “flirted” with a GP and p…

www.thesun.co.uk

Cheers

Geo

 

[WitheringAway]

i have no friends
24 and still kissless hugless virgin

i cope with video games. but i dont enjoy

I'm fairly attractive in pics and ugly irl lol wish I didn't have to wear makeup to feel like I'm less ugly. The amounts of makeup I have to wear makes my skin age horribly lmao when I wake up or get outta the shower I literally ew at myself in the mirror and grab the nearest makeup product to cover up the ugly

 

[Mr2005]

I don't look in the mirror. I used to be obsessed. Now I have so many problems it hardly matters.

 

[loginboy69]

im decent looking and want to kms , dw it dosent get much better

 

[lotus11]

I don't let anyone take my photo EVER absolutely not a video. Haven't let anyone take a pic of me in about 8 years. It freaks me out I literally have a phobia of photos, if someone takes one without my knowledge and I see it I literally get freaked out for months cos I am so not used to seeing myself! I can handle mirrors a bit better. I think because I am more used to them...It can be really tricky and annoying when you are in a work setting and they demand to take photos and videos for a company. Honestly, there is nothing I hate more

 

[ocd is bad]

It's hard and it's such a difficult thing to accept. Sometimes I look in a mirror and think I'm not that bad but sometimes i see myself or see a photo of me and I want to claw at my face because its so ugly. It's like I have to choose between either resting bitch face or trying way too hard to force a smile

 

[torturedbylife]

I don't really know how to cope since I have a grotesque face but I have times when I don't give a shit because I know I'll be forever alone and I have to accept this destiny whether I like or not. I try to avoid mirrors and phone cameras and I drink to forget everything, including this cursed shit.

 

[Alucard]

We dont' choose biology. In fact, we don't choose anything.

 

[Philosykos]

I drink too much and distract myself with video games and series. When going out in public, I wear invisibility cloaks disguised as clothing. I also eat too little on purpose so I can at least be skinny but nowhere near a 'hot' body. That's unfortunately getting harder the further I get from age 20 and the hormones make me gain weight like crazy if I so much as dare look at a slice of pizza.

 

[ArtySchopenhauer]

I cope with it like I cope with everything else -- music and drinking/

 

[Worthless_nobody]

I just reached a point where I stopped caring. I'll never have the money for surgries I want. I was relentlessly made fun of in school because of my horrible acne. It eventually went away thru me agonizing over treatments. Around age 18 everything changed and by society's standards I looked pretty...I have low self esteem. But I just don't care anymore. I just want to exist instead of being an object. I recently chopped off my long hair and dyed it dark again because I got sick and tired of being stared at by a hair color my ex fetishised and wanted me to have.

Plus looks don't gurantee a good life....my cousin is ugly by society's standards yet she has an amazing life...I'm "pretty" yet my life is trauma and abuse filled and I have chronic pain and severe PTSD and I want to ctb.

 

[everydayiloveyou]

Well the truth is ugly people get by just fine in life. Ugly people can be millionaires, CEOs, bosses, wives, husbands, star athletes, etc. Just look at Zuckerberg or reality TV stars. Similarly theres no guarantee that you will be happy just by being beautiful. That's irrational thinking. If you hang around looksmaxxing sites, you'll see plenty of beautiful people who are fully convinced that their lives suck because they are ugly, and other beautiful people agreeing with them and encouraging each other to do harmful things for beauty. It's a mental illness, just like depression and anorexia and psychosis.

There's a reason everyone says looks dont matter, because normal people don't instantly determine your life's course just by looking at you. Normal people have flexible opinions and tend to view others as whole individuals. Of course it always pays to be cute, but if you shower, take care of your teeth, exercise, and generally practice good hygiene, then most people are not going to pay close attention to your looks unless you're super beautiful or clearly deformed. And not deformed as in you don't got a "warrior skull" or whatever, but actually deformed, as in visible disabilities or having three eyes or something.

Looks can mean a lot but they certainly aren't everything. But if you have bad acne or crooked teeth or whatever, it never hurts to fix them. What's for sure though is that having mental illness is very obvious to people. Not only does it affect your ability to maintain good hygiene, but it's also really obvious when someone's kinda crazy or depressing or neurotic. I feel like as you get older, those "unwell" vibes turn people off more than anything. So that can really make a big impact on how "ugly" you seem I think. But that part is just my opinion.

 

[Sinai Silence]

I try to avoid ever looking at my reflection and I will try to immerse myself in whatever I'm doing to try forget that I exist.