How can I kill myself and minimize the pain I cause my boyfriend?

[S5E51mbB]

You've been brainwashed to think they way. There are elite people in the world who want women to say that, they want men addicted to porn, they want all these people to stay children, they want divorce, because it is difficult to control strong families. They want people to rely on the state.

Stop engaging with popular culture. It's been inserted into popular culture and education for a reason. Remove the feminist bullshit from your life, remove all the propaganda you take in. This is the only option to having a better life.

You're really pushing your opinion aren't you? One would imagine that OP's made the correct and logical decision, but oh no. Let's just bring another sentient being into this shitty existence because it'll somehow reduce her suicidal ideation and improve quality of life. Nevermind all the risks involved and the studies that contradict exactly what you're preaching.

 

[Donewith_]

I couldn't help you with a answer to this, I myself am looking for a answer how to reduce pain to my family.

@Sunlight99 you have clearly been brainwashed with some crappy thoughts. Yeah, it's very easy to cross boundaries when communication is only through text. It's depressing to read what you wrote here. I felt a bit disgusted. Honestly, keep your stuff to yourself.. don't littler it everywhere.
I won't talk about your depressing views you have put here.
Just learn to take a no as a no, and a yes as a yes. Respect people's opinions.

 

[Sunlight99]

You're really pushing your opinion aren't you? One would imagine that OP's made the correct and logical decision, but oh no. Let's just bring another sentient being into this shitty existence because it'll somehow reduce her suicidal ideation and improve quality of life. Nevermind all the risks involved and the studies that contradict exactly what you're preaching.

Women crave infant contact and our society makes it hard for them to get that. In a normal society she would have been wed and have lots of children to love by 18, and she could raise them better than how her parents raised her. 99.99% of humanity who has lived on earth would agree with me, because they knew it created stable societies and aligns with female nature.

A lot of women are on this board because of this.

I couldn't help you with a answer to this, I myself am looking for a answer how to reduce pain to my family.
@Sunlight99 you have clearly been brainwashed with some crappy thoughts. Yeah, it's very easy to cross boundaries when communication is only through text. It's depressing to read what you wrote here. I felt a bit disgusted. Honestly, keep your stuff to yourself.. don't littler it everywhere.
I won't talk about your depressing views you have put here.
Just learn to take a no as a no, and a yes as a yes. Respect people's opinions

You should take your own advice and respect mine.

 

[Donewith_]

Women crave infant contact and our society makes it hard for them to get that. In a normal society she would have been wed and have lots of children to love by 18, and she could raise them better than how her parents raised her. 99.99% of humanity who has lived on earth would agree with me, because they knew it created stable societies and aligns with female nature.

this is crap.. kind of depressing women in a way. you don't own people's lives. i myself am not here because of the reasons you stated. If a man or a woman is depressed, and they get into a relationship or get married, it would only complicate things.

You should take your own advice and respect mine.

you are pressing your opinions and kind of spamming by posting those crap opinions repeatedly here.. which is bothering me.

 

[Bojangles]

There are too many profoundly unhappy mothers in this world for me to believe that a baby is magically going to solve a woman's problems. In most cases the stresses of motherhood only exacerbate existing issues, and the hormonal effects of pregnancy itself can induce long-term depression even in people who were formerly mentally healthy. My own grandmother committed suicide after having three children who were all under the age of ten when she decided to die, and her daughter (my mother) was profoundly unhappy all throughout my childhood, which affected me in ways that still shape my life today. The children of unstable, depressed mothers are often the sort of people who end up posting on message boards like this, and some of us have the sense to understand that repeating our parents' mistakes and burdening yet another innocent with a legacy of misery isn't going to do anything to unburden ourselves.

 

[Worndown]

If he loves you, he will be hurt. If you leave a thorough and kind explanation, it might lessen the pain.

 

[S5E51mbB]

Women crave infant contact and our society makes it hard for them to get that. In a normal society she would have been wed and have lots of children to love by 18, and she could raise them better than how her parents raised her. 99.99% of humanity who has lived on earth would agree with me, because they knew it created stable societies and aligns with female nature.

A lot of women are on this board because of this.

All I read is mere conjecture which is backed up by zero scientific evidence. I mean, lots of children by 18? That's one hot take mate. I know a lot of people who are around 17, and they sure aren't mature enough to be raising kids. I doubt anyone is in fact. Makes me wonder how you posit that the child can be raised well. As for your claim that 99.99% of humanity agreeing with your views, I'm sure you're aware that that doesn't mean jack: argumentum ad populum. I'll reiterate my point: you're throwing out extraordinary claims, and as a result you ought to back them up with some seriously good evidence. Otherwise, your views do more harm than good.

 

[Macc Lad]

I've pretty much decided I'm going to kill myself. I haven't picked a time or method yet, but I don't see myself living to celebrate my 26th birthday.
The biggest issue I see is the pain I'd cause my boyfriend. We've been together for two years, and he loves me a lot. I know he'd be devastated if I killed myself.
For now, I decided that if I kill myself, I'd have to do it in a hotel, so he won't be the first one to find my body. Is there anything else I can do to try to minimize the pain?

you don't love him ??

 

[Puddings]

Having children because you have a void to fill or need a purpose in life or what ever, is the most selfish thing in this world. This world does not need more babies to feed, more pollution and more children being born into a lifetime of emotional turmoil.

With regards to your boyfriend, I dont think there is an easy answer. It will be hard for you both no matter what. It is a tough one. I worry about my husband too. I dont think it is something we could explain to them. One could argue, if we really loved them we would not do this. But also, if they really loved us, they would let us go in peace in and dignity, with their blessing, instead of scared and alone. Its not so simple sadly. There is no avoiding that he will be hurt. I suppose the best you can do is leaving some sort of message trying to really explain that it is not his fault and it is what you really needed.

Im sorry for your childhood trauma. I really understand it. I feel for you.