Help with hiding SH from partner

[letsmokerr]

to sum it up, I am addicted to sh and haven't been able to cut in 7 years. I really want to, but I am a mother and in a relationship, so hiding it seems actually impossible. Especially since my partner knows I like to sh by hitting/punching/scratching. He finds everything I do and questions me and it would be almost impossible to come up with an answer… I know this is pretty much pointless and stupid to be asking, just wondering if anyone has found a pretty good way to hide it. I sleep naked and we're intimate a lot so it's not like I'm covered up a lot. :/ TIA!!

 

[missingpeace]

What is SH? I presume it's some kind cutting? Can you pick a spot on your body that is not obvious like under the arm? Also maybe you can use make-up? Try and use some kind of aloe vera gel or cream to get the wounds to heal quickly. You can turn the lights off when your in bed with your partner as well.

 

[stilhavinightmares]

I have been trying to figure this out for a few weeks now. I haven't come to a conclusion unfortunately. It's pretty impossible to hide when you're in an intimate relationship. Cutting was always my choice but honestly any form of self harm is going to have physical manifestations. Sorry I can't help but I can empathize. I thought about maybe inner upper arms or somewhere that would be under my bra or undies but obviously the bra or undies would need to stay on in most cases. I thought about maybe like foot area and just wear socks bc it wouldn't be that suspicious… I ran out of ideas and just gave up.

 

[pops589]

to sum it up, I am addicted to sh and haven't been able to cut in 7 years. I really want to, but I am a mother and in a relationship, so hiding it seems actually impossible. Especially since my partner knows I like to sh by hitting/punching/scratching. He finds everything I do and questions me and it would be almost impossible to come up with an answer… I know this is pretty much pointless and stupid to be asking, just wondering if anyone has found a pretty good way to hide it. I sleep naked and we're intimate a lot so it's not like I'm covered up a lot. :/ TIA!!

my form of SH is hard exercise. Might not be for you but I would recommend trying it.