Once. When I first moved to where I am now back in the early 2000s I got my first Internet. Back then, as many of you will remember, chat rooms were a big thing. Guys were like, "A/S/L??" That's age, sex, and location, for you younger kids, lol. I met a woman who lived about an hour away. She was much older than me. We both were honest about who we were. But she was dishonest about one thing. Socially I've always been very unskilled, and don't really like being around people. I was very upfront about this with her. I made sure, over and over, she understood that, although I like me some sexy time like everyone else, I was unable to function in a normal relationship. So we got together and started "doing it." As soon as that happened she started trying to groom a relationship where I was going to fulfill the role of life partner for her. She would get after me about it, then back off when I reminded her we had an understanding. She wasn't attractive to me, but she was very kinky, and into it. I got to do things with her I never had before, and she was up for it. I would have never done those things with someone under false pretenses. She even offered to pay all the bills if I would move in together. Eventually, she accused me of using her. I got really angry, and told her I had always been very honest, and even turned down letting her support me. I never took anything from her. It's the last person I had sex with. I'm done with people.