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wildflowers1996

wildflowers1996

Mage
Oct 14, 2023
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and just found it completely useless?
Or am I at fault? Did I just not try hard enough? Was I closed minded?

I've had CBT/ERP for BDD and I would just come out of each session crying
I feel like perhaps it's my fault and maybe I'm someone a therapist would say "isn't ready to do the work" maybe I didn't try hard enough with homework etc I don't know but it just made me feel awful
 
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AllCatsAreGrey

AllCatsAreGrey

they/he
Sep 27, 2023
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I've done some CBT. It didn't fit well with me. I get value out of small applications, but as a base modality not my jam. It often feels like I'm gaslighting or brainwashing myself.

There are tons of modalities, so I wouldn't feel bad if it doesn't fit for you at this time.
 
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sserafim

sserafim

they say it's darkest of all before the dawn
Sep 13, 2023
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and just found it completely useless?
Or am I at fault? Did I just not try hard enough? Was I closed minded?

I've had CBT/ERP for BDD and I would just come out of each session crying
I feel like perhaps it's my fault and maybe I'm someone a therapist would say "isn't ready to do the work" maybe I didn't try hard enough with homework etc I don't know but it just made me feel awful
Yeah I've had CBT before but it didn't work. I heard an interesting theory that CBT doesn't work on people on the spectrum. Like @AllCatsAreGrey said, it felt like I was just gaslighting and brainwashing myself.
 
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DEATH IS FREEDOM

DEATH IS FREEDOM

Death is the solution to unsolvable problems.
Sep 13, 2023
606
The word CBT does not even exist!
 

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