Has anyone else been stalked?

[FatalSystemError591]

Yeah I was. It was odd because it was my then-boyfriend's best friend. When we broke up, I inherited his friend group and they became as much my friends as his. And I guess this dude thought he had a chance? He offered to walk with me home as we were in an in depth conversation and his parents were super laid back so they didn't care if he was home right away. Biiiig mistake. He would follow me home after that and then show up at my door asking for me! And then he brought a friend I had never met over and he started doing the same thing!

The odd thing is that the friend of the friend started dating my sister. Didn't last long. He continued to knock on our door asking for us randomly once a year. It was odd and creepy.

 

[IsThisTheEnd?]

Absolutely. My abusive ex-partner has been stalking me for more than two years, she has a personality disorder, is a classic narcissist and appears to still be obsessed with me. It affects many aspects of my life, I have to live and work under a pseudonym and publish research under a nom de plume. I've written about it more extensively in other threads, but you have my deepest sympathies, even when the stalking 'ends' you live with the constant fear that it will begin again.

Sorry I haven't logged in for a while, I belive my stalker also has a personality disorder or thats what he told me once still doesn't make it better for me but thanks for your great reply :).

I was actually stalked by an ex-gf few years ago. And I don't mean sending PMs on social media, which I didn't and don't use. I mean real threats of sending over thugs, sending over police (her family member in the police). She never did, but it was no fun. Anyhoo, what I really wanted to say is that not only women have stalkers.

I'd say that's borderline it could go either way i.e that maybe how it starts but if it ended there then it's ok

Not really stalked but I had a friend who notified me of another friend who was wearing my clothes and taking pictures of himself in them when I wasn't around. Strange world.

This is often a telltale sign in my opinion wearing the same clothes i.e copying your style etc.