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INYGTRMTFMO

INYGTRMTFMO

I Need Your Grace To Remind Me To Find My Own
May 1, 2025
110
Holy shit am I feeling very, very aware of suicide these days. *deep sigh*

But hey, the teal and purple color aesthetic is a v i b e.

However this month starts and ends for you, I hope you have as much peace, comfort, and joy in the meantime as is possible. ๐Ÿ’•
 
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Shadows From Hell

Shadows From Hell

The one who has lost a lot, fears nothing.
Oct 21, 2024
452
Suicide Awareness Month? Yaaay! Let's....

Ummm ......

Party, I guess? ๐Ÿคช๐Ÿคช
 

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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

Enlightened
May 7, 2025
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This is yet another one of those worthless things people do to make themselves feel good looking like they care without doing anything.

I could enumerate all the months, days, whatever denoted as "National Whatever Day/Month" that exist just to appease the masses without actually doing anything. A company I used to work for, that is partially instrumental in my current state of mind happens to be a sponsor of an event where there will be music or whatever to "honor" National Suicide Awareness Month... and yet, they know me and don't give a shit about actual people in the community suffering. I'm not saying they owe me anything... I'm just saying they'll sponsor a party for people who aren't depressed or suicidal to get together and dance to music and drink and say platitudes and shit, but aren't actually willing to do anything meaningful to attempt to improve the world or even their little local slice of it. Every time I hear the advertisement on the radio, it pisses me off a little more.

Thinking politically too... ever notice how long it takes to pass even moderately decent legislation? but they can pass "National Green Toad Day" in an afternoon. They can do all this nonsense shit that means nothing in the blink of an eye... but actually caring and doing even the obvious things that could improve lives for people is beyond their capabilities. Like just the minimum of actually being kind and decent and not going out of your way to make things worse for someone else just because they are different... that's too high of a bar... but they'll announce "National We Pretend to Give a Fuck for Five Minutes" Day and pat themselves on the back.

It's like all the shit around Thanksgiving where they make a big thing about how nice they are making turkey dinners for homeless... and it's not nothing... but then it's "fuck the homeless" the rest of the year for most of those people. Politicians and celebrities will make a point of being caught with the "regular people" for a photo op then disappear when questions about more permanent improvements in quality of life are posed.

I am personally offended by National Suicide Awareness month because they don't give a fuck the rest of the year. Money is routinely taken away from health care in general, but especially mental health care... and people with mental health needs are often shunned and discarded unless it is convenient to use as an example for a photo opportunity.

There is no real effort to improve awareness... no real effort to address things that they are aware of... it's just a dance they do for a little bit to make people think they notice, to tamp down some of the louder complaints for a while, and to pat themselves on the back for a non-job not well done.
 
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Forveleth

I knew I forgot to do something when I was 15...
Mar 26, 2024
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There is such thing as suicide? I was not aware! Thank you!
 
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Eriktf

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Jun 1, 2023
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thanks but I was aware of that option.
 
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LapseInTime

LapseInTime

Top-notch parasite.
Sep 4, 2024
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This is yet another one of those worthless things people do to make themselves feel good looking like they care without doing anything.

I could enumerate all the months, days, whatever denoted as "National Whatever Day/Month" that exist just to appease the masses without actually doing anything. A company I used to work for, that is partially instrumental in my current state of mind happens to be a sponsor of an event where there will be music or whatever to "honor" National Suicide Awareness Month... and yet, they know me and don't give a shit about actual people in the community suffering. I'm not saying they owe me anything... I'm just saying they'll sponsor a party for people who aren't depressed or suicidal to get together and dance to music and drink and say platitudes and shit, but aren't actually willing to do anything meaningful to attempt to improve the world or even their little local slice of it. Every time I hear the advertisement on the radio, it pisses me off a little more.

Thinking politically too... ever notice how long it takes to pass even moderately decent legislation? but they can pass "National Green Toad Day" in an afternoon. They can do all this nonsense shit that means nothing in the blink of an eye... but actually caring and doing even the obvious things that could improve lives for people is beyond their capabilities. Like just the minimum of actually being kind and decent and not going out of your way to make things worse for someone else just because they are different... that's too high of a bar... but they'll announce "National We Pretend to Give a Fuck for Five Minutes" Day and pat themselves on the back.

It's like all the shit around Thanksgiving where they make a big thing about how nice they are making turkey dinners for homeless... and it's not nothing... but then it's "fuck the homeless" the rest of the year for most of those people. Politicians and celebrities will make a point of being caught with the "regular people" for a photo op then disappear when questions about more permanent improvements in quality of life are posed.

I am personally offended by National Suicide Awareness month because they don't give a fuck the rest of the year. Money is routinely taken away from health care in general, but especially mental health care... and people with mental health needs are often shunned and discarded unless it is convenient to use as an example for a photo opportunity.

There is no real effort to improve awareness... no real effort to address things that they are aware of... it's just a dance they do for a little bit to make people think they notice, to tamp down some of the louder complaints for a while, and to pat themselves on the back for a non-job not well done.
Really spot on. "Yayyy we have another awareness day!"
That just means:
We're giving it its moment so we can forget it for the rest of the year
It's a matter of "awareness", no further action needed, get yourself aware and you're fucking set!
Aren't we all just SOOOOO kind for putting up with this? Yayyy! Awareness! Who doesn't love a little sensitivity in their corporate image campaign? It's part of our "VISION"
Let's flip it on its head: Suicide awareness just means that everybody's on the prowl to stop you from ctb - what, do you think we'd ever help you? In what?
 
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Dejected 55

Dejected 55

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May 7, 2025
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Let's flip it on its head: Suicide awareness just means that everybody's on the prowl to stop you from ctb - what, do you think we'd ever help you? In what?

Actually, even in my cynicism I didn't think of that one... It could be like what police do sometimes. They'll issue an alert that certain cocaine is about to expire or something inane like that so a bunch of not-thinking people will come in to exchange their cocaine for good stuff, just so they can arrest them.

I wonder if anyone has any reports of any "suicide awareness" efforts that result in people being hounded or hospitalized against their will because they showed up thinking there were people there to help, only to find out that it was a scam to get vulnerable to accidentally out themselves.
 
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Off_Switch

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Aug 15, 2025
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October-August...
 

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mysideofthemountain

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According to NAMI it's suicide _prevention_ month....which I guess is slightly different than awareness....except this is what they wrote on their website:

"Each September, NAMI recognizes Suicide Prevention Month as a time to raise awareness, spread hope, and spark meaningful action around one of the most urgent mental health issues of our time."

lol
 
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Dejected 55

Enlightened
May 7, 2025
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According to NAMI it's suicide _prevention_ month....which I guess is slightly different than awareness....except this is what they wrote on their website:

"Each September, NAMI recognizes Suicide Prevention Month as a time to raise awareness, spread hope, and spark meaningful action around one of the most urgent mental health issues of our time."

lol
Yeah, if you are a "Prevention" organization that your goals aren't to prevent anything... you're doing something wrong.

It's so "urgent" that they do very little beyond hand-waving, parades, and platitudes.

I imagine this in other areas...

The Fire Department should have a "Fire Prevention Month" where they raise awareness of fires. They don't actually put out any fires during that month, though, they just raise awareness and tell people how fires are bad and such. It's a crisis of fires that people need to be more aware of! Only you can prevent forest fires, but let's not actually go prevent any... just watch the world burn that month... but tell people it's bad and happening... Awareness!

When you think about it... the movie "The Purge" is kind of "Crime Awareness" in that they set aside a day to make people aware of crime by allowing it to happen freely and without repercussion.

We humans spend so much time and money on awareness and patting ourselves on the bad for thinking we are good... and doing very little most of the time to actually fix things. Most of the time the undesirables are easily swept under the rug and ignored until every once in a while they have an "awareness" event.

Suicide Prevention/Awareness is little more than Flag Day... wave some flags, play some music, roast hot dogs, and take five minutes to act like you care... then go back to normal operations.

Remember the Alamo? No? They always say "Remember the Alamo" but those three words is really all that stuck... Or when 9/11 happened, it became "Never Forget" except, what were we supposed to not forget? I don't know... but Never Forget! Ironically, during the immediate aftermath of the 9/11 attacks the first responders were applauded as heroes, especially by politicians looking for photo ops and donations to their campaigns... but behind the scenes, firefighters, police, paramedics, all the first responders who worked in the area that day... were suffering (the ones who didn't die that day of course) from all kinds of complications that came from working the area and trying to save people and restore order and safety to the area... and those first responders and their families are STILL fighting to this day to get medical care...but, you know, Never forget! Except when you forget the fuck about them.
 
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girlsboysthems

girlsboysthems

no i dont have a gun
Dec 19, 2022
434
happy suicide month to those celebrating. sadly i will not be able to join the festivities is i has to work ew....
 
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