Friends stepping in

[Bloody Bad Poet]

Hey so I want to make sure my friends don't try step in so I want to make sure they don't care about me? Anything I can do that will make them dislike me with as little damage as possible. Preferably just stop talking with me instead of actively disliking me.(We currently talk every day)

 

[FuneralCry]

I would just make excuses not to talk to them or try and ignore them/act distant and maybe eventually they might stop caring but it sounds like a difficult situation. I personally wouldn't see it as being the best idea to open up about wanting to die at all as to me it's awful the thought of other people trying to interfere in plans to leave.

 

[SexyIncél]

Ask for a vacation. Tell them you need to go on a journey to see deeper. Your love for them corrupts your vision. You'll tell them all about it once (*cough* if *cough*) you return

You can say Alexander Grothendieck inspired you:

"They've all done things, often beautiful things, in a context that was already set out before them, which they had no inclination to disturb. Without being aware of it, they've remained prisoners of those invisible and despotic circles which delimit the universe of a certain milieu in a given era. To have broken these bounds they would have had to rediscover in themselves that capability which was their birthright, as it was mine: the capacity to be alone."

Very smart not to make them dislike you. Typically a terrible mistake. Many end up not ctb'ing; end up haunted by their wrecked relationships

 

[bunsïy]

I would just start by doing little things like making up excuses on why you can't meet up, cancel plans, take extra long when responding to messages etc. Eventually they will naturally start losing interest and soon will go from messaging everyday to every couple days till they just don't message at all. Then that way there's no bad blood and if you ever change your mind you can just tell them you got busy will life.

 

[Worndown]

Making them dislike you is not a good strategy. Some of this should simply be private. Instead of walling them off from you, wall off this subject from them.