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i have a similar mindset and it frustrates me to no end. it probably does the same for the person i put this burden onto. im trying to distance and detach myself from them bc of it. they rarely talk to me anyway so i must not mean much. its just not possible to manipulate someone into liking/loving you the same amount and way you do for them so its just like well what more can i do? sorry for just adding to ur rant <|3
me personally i never told them how much i'm struggling without them and how much i need them and how much i look up to them and how much they mean to me. i'll do so in my suicide note ofc if it comes to that which i really hope it won't. for me it's a relatively reciprocal relationship until they start having issues and then they isolate themself. maybe they talk to their boyfriend idk but me and their other friends don't hear from them for weeks often. and no worries, we're all here to support each other <3
I am sorry for what you are going through. I understand how deeply committed we can be to a friend. Sometimes they mean more than family to us.
