NSFW Female orgasm

[fleischmaschina]

sometime ago I came across this information that women cant get orgasm from penetration alone. Not all of them, but big majority. Now.. that is so strange and weird to me and im curious why is that so? My partner has to non stop concetrate to not cum when Im licking her down there. I mean the whole thing is just…flawed if you ask me. For me, give me a pussy and Im happy aaand…i just cant enjoy a blowjob…weird isnt it? Entire porn industry and culture as well like to portray that blowjob is something realy awesome. Now, i dont know, maybe its my "fault" i cant cum from a bj or she dont know how to do it. Okay back to female genitalia. Vagina is enough for a penis, but only a penis isnt enough for a vagina. What are your thoughts on this, women and men? If you dont mind sharing Id like to hear honest experience from you regarding bj, cunnilingus, can you orgasm from penetration alone etc.?

One more thing mens balls hanging outside of the body is the dumbest thing ever. Just a design flaw straight up. Literaly there so u can get kicked in… completely unprotected.

 

[NearlyIrrelevantCake]

Balls are outside of the body to keep them cooler and not roast the sperm, essentially. It's a feature, not a bug.

 

[IncrediblePal]

Balls are outside of the body to keep them cooler and not roast the sperm, essentially. It's a feature, not a bug.

I dunno, evolving so that the sperm can withstand a few more degrees sounds a lot better than a hanging sack.

 

[fleischmaschina]

Balls are outside of the body to keep them cooler and not roast the sperm, essentially. It's a feature, not a bug.

Okay fine. But ill go further, why is there a ribcage? Well, they say, to protect vital organs…okay. Wouldnt it be great if balls where inside boney structure as well??

 

[R. A.]

Gotta work the right angle.

 

[itsoverforme303]

I dunno, evolving so that the sperm can withstand a few more degrees sounds a lot better than a hanging sack.

It's a chemistry issue. Spermatogenesis simply doesn't occur at our body temperature. All mammals have body temperatures higher than that required for spermatogenesis. Anyway, nature usually doesn't always sustain the best design, just the "good enough" ones, and hanging balls are just one off those I guess.

 

[LastNite]

Pov the sperm in your balls after the temp changes by +- 3 degrees:

 

[Vlad Tepes]

 

[Forever Sleep]

I can't really advise because I haven't slept with a guy but a friend once told me the famale orgasm was rare. I just assumed her partner wasn't all that knowledgable or maybe her biology was maybe different in some way. She didn't like the thought of masturbation.

But then, I felt kind of sorry for her- that she's missing out. Then, I started to wonder whether in lots of couples, the woman isn't orgasming. I think it's kind of funny that as a virgin, I may have had more orgasms than people in relationships.

I also find it weird though. Surely- it would have been a better design to have our g-spots in a more accessible location.

I guess the sad part of it might be that- regardless of whether they orgasmed, women throughout the ages were still being impregnated. So, maybe the location of our erogenous zones have slightly shifted over time. If it wasn't always pleasurable for a man, I wonder if there would be less babies born.

I'm not sure how much 'responsibility' is on the man and the woman in sex to make her orgasm. I imagine it's a bit of both. Getting the angles right etc. Lol.

From the one player perspective- at least 50% is going on my brain I find. If I'm not focussed on the imagery- it won't happen- for me anyway. I'm not sure if that's the same for all women. I think for men- maybe just stimulation is enough.

I suppose that's what I find difficult about imagining sex with a person. Even if they were gorgeous, I hate the way I look. So- I simply wouldn't find the look of me having sex, sexy at all! More repulsive- if anything. So- I wonder if other people have the same issues. Can they only orgasm via fantasizing something in their brain? If they're having to fantasize about being someone else, maybe even their partner being someone else- won't that be insulting for their partner?

 

[Grav]

I think there's more involved to get a woman to orgasm than men. A series of actions and characteristics that have to line up and it's easy to miss one that breaks the whole.

 

[Whale_bones]

If there's any "equivalent" to a penis for women, it's the clitoris, not the vagina. Most women (estimated 70%-80%) need direct clitoral stimulation to achieve orgasm. The clitoris is on the outside, the vagina is on the inside. They look and feel very different. With that said, everyone is individual so what's most enjoyable will be different from person to person.

You should probably tag this post NSFW just to be safe.

 

[fleischmaschina]

You should probably tag this post NSFW just to be safe.

Done. Ye I wasnt even sure if this type of subjects are allowed here (if we forget its a forum about suicide haha) so I just did it.

 

[Whale_bones]

Done. Ye I wasnt even sure if this type of subjects are allowed here (if we forget it's a forum about suicide haha) so I just did it.

The title does give away that it's NSFW, but there might be a setting on here like "don't show NSFW topics" (I don't remember for sure), but that only works if they're tagged so I figured it's better to tag it just in case.

 

[fleischmaschina]

I can't really advise because I haven't slept with a guy but a friend once told me the famale orgasm was rare. I just assumed her partner wasn't all that knowledgable or maybe her biology was maybe different in some way. She didn't like the thought of masturbation.

But then, I felt kind of sorry for her- that she's missing out. Then, I started to wonder whether in lots of couples, the woman isn't orgasming. I think it's kind of funny that as a virgin, I may have had more orgasms than people in relationships.

I also find it weird though. Surely- it would have been a better design to have our g-spots in a more accessible location.

I guess the sad part of it might be that- regardless of whether they orgasmed, women throughout the ages were still being impregnated. So, maybe the location of our erogenous zones have slightly shifted over time. If it wasn't always pleasurable for a man, I wonder if there would be less babies born.

I'm not sure how much 'responsibility' is on the man and the woman in sex to make her orgasm. I imagine it's a bit of both. Getting the angles right etc. Lol.

From the one player perspective- at least 50% is going on my brain I find. If I'm not focussed on the imagery- it won't happen- for me anyway. I'm not sure if that's the same for all women. I think for men- maybe just stimulation is enough.

I suppose that's what I find difficult about imagining sex with a person. Even if they were gorgeous, I hate the way I look. So- I simply wouldn't find the look of me having sex, sexy at all! More repulsive- if anything. So- I wonder if other people have the same issues. Can they only orgasm via fantasizing something in their brain? If they're having to fantasize about being someone else, maybe even their partner being someone else- won't that be insulting for their partner?

From my experience, its very limiting of what you can do in terms of angle… im not all that aware of g spot, if im not mistaken its realy hidden on the upper wall toward the belly. A man cant bend penis but some are bent and some not. So you either change position conpletely or you cant do much but to thrust..

Im guilty of imagining having sex with someone else, but i dont do that most of the time, and i think its same for women.

Also, to cum from stimulation alone dont work for me. I realy reeeealy need to abstain for some time for that to work and even then im not sure there arent some images and thoughts going through the mind. I would be able to lets say, haha, think of my asshole boss at work and cum…