Now_And_Then
If I am no good , then let me out
- Jun 30, 2019
- 277
The father admits he has no clue about things like girls and relation ships
From a teenager I was mentally like a 12 year old until I was about 27 or so . I am now 37 . I was always in my own world and wanted to kill my self since school . I never mentally developed right .... I was not stupid , but I clutched on to a fantasy world for comfort . I was also pressured to not have a girl friend by the father . He never brought me up because in his words he hates responsibility , so told me he left it to my grand parents . I got no mental training from him or my mother
Yes you may have guessed I have never had a girl friend . I am not a virgin however as I went to see a few prostitutes in my 20's , but it had no significance . I went on a few dates with a girl called Zoe in 2007 , but I was so mentally wrong that I ended up drifting away from her
The father ( he is a eccentric weird in his own world , ignores much of reality ) keeps hollering to me that 40 is the exact same as 20 and even with no experience , I have the same chances as a 20 to 30 year old with getting a relation ship
He seems to not be able to grasp that there is no way I will be able to reach 40 in this state ( and I am in no mental position to try and quickly change things , too much too change )
What can I tell him regarding his belief about starting your sex and love life at 40 ? The man is an idiot
I have attached a picture of me from 2007 just do you know what Zoe had seen then ( the speech bubble I added back then )
From a teenager I was mentally like a 12 year old until I was about 27 or so . I am now 37 . I was always in my own world and wanted to kill my self since school . I never mentally developed right .... I was not stupid , but I clutched on to a fantasy world for comfort . I was also pressured to not have a girl friend by the father . He never brought me up because in his words he hates responsibility , so told me he left it to my grand parents . I got no mental training from him or my mother
Yes you may have guessed I have never had a girl friend . I am not a virgin however as I went to see a few prostitutes in my 20's , but it had no significance . I went on a few dates with a girl called Zoe in 2007 , but I was so mentally wrong that I ended up drifting away from her
The father ( he is a eccentric weird in his own world , ignores much of reality ) keeps hollering to me that 40 is the exact same as 20 and even with no experience , I have the same chances as a 20 to 30 year old with getting a relation ship
He seems to not be able to grasp that there is no way I will be able to reach 40 in this state ( and I am in no mental position to try and quickly change things , too much too change )
What can I tell him regarding his belief about starting your sex and love life at 40 ? The man is an idiot
I have attached a picture of me from 2007 just do you know what Zoe had seen then ( the speech bubble I added back then )