Extreme difficulty "getting things in order"

[underairpressure]

I have a lot of barriers that are preventing me from being "ready" in case i either die from my self-destructive behavior, or directly by suicide, and it's frustrating how much trouble I'm having getting them done. I wondered if anyone else struggled with the same issue

I have extremely bad executive function issues so I'm sure that's part of it. Getting ANYTHING done, even in the best of circumstances, is hard for me. But I also think in this case specifically it's just, extra daunting, because I have so many things I want/need to do (personalized notes for loved ones, preparing my living will/advance directive, organizing and selling off my stuff, etc). Has anyone here dealt with this, and figured out a way to actually get things done?

 

[Jadeith]

Easiest or rather, most accessible way to manage things to do is to create a list. Paper one or on the phone. Hell, one can even make a list here as a post and then fulfill the tasks with the help of the community.
Keeping it in the head is bloody difficult, especially with thoughts racing around like hypercaffeinated cats with ADHD. If you write it down, you can assign priority to specific tasks, timelines if needed, % of completion, assigning specific task to a specific days etc.
If the task is too large, it can be split into subtasks that are easier to complete in sorter amount of time.