NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
Somber
Arcanist
- Jan 6, 2022
- 457
FuneralCry
Just wanting some peace
- Sep 24, 2020
- 44,947
In my case I do not care whether I am liked or not, I know for certain there is nothing likeable about me. Other peoples thoughts and opinions do not really matter to me. At the end of the day this life is all meaningless and insignificant but I'm sorry you feel this way. I wish you the best.
I'm sorry.
Did something happen to you recently to make you feel that way?
I feel annoying and stupid here, and eventually I feel unlikeable in every other place I've posted.
Did something happen to you recently to make you feel that way?
I feel annoying and stupid here, and eventually I feel unlikeable in every other place I've posted.
fox_wannabe
Enlightened
- Jul 7, 2021
- 1,112
I might like to think I am liked online, but truth is people will mostly see your profile picture. And then they will check if they agree with you or not.
And you can almost never achieve that connection to other people online, although I doubt I ever felt that connection anyways. There is too much to be shared to achieve It and It would overwhelm anybody.
And you can almost never achieve that connection to other people online, although I doubt I ever felt that connection anyways. There is too much to be shared to achieve It and It would overwhelm anybody.
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angiegirl30
Student
- Jan 20, 2022
- 112
I'm not sure what happened but I'm sorry you feel this way. I don't think you've done or said anything to offend. For what it's worth, I like you. Was drawn to your user name and profile pic. Sending hugs your way.
Onthe29th
Experienced
- Dec 28, 2021
- 255
It's ok. I don't really feel cared for or liked here either but that's been my whole life and I don't really know how to or feel comfortable getting close to people. I also don't feel like I deserve it at this point. At least I don't feel like I don't belong here. I hope you feel a little better
yep same. i often ask myself why is being liked the goal? but it comes down to human instinct unfortunately cannot escape the shackles of biology
Marktheghost
Paragon
- Feb 20, 2020
- 911
Nobody likes me either. Everybody I try to get to know by pm on here stops writing to me (if they reply at all) after only a few messages. I wish somebody would help me work out what it is I need to change to make people want to accept my offer of an extremely high quality friendship!
whatevs
Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
- 2,912
Benefits of being liked:
- You get laid and pass offspring
- Less likely to get murdered or tortured by other humans
- People do stuff for you, and if you are really popular they will literally serve you
- Have people to relate to, vent, and quench the biological necessity of communication
Considering how many areas of our desire being liked covers it could be argued that being liked is the quintessential goal of a normal person. This is why social engineering works so well, in 2022 they have even achieved an overlap between being responsible/smart with voluntarily surrendering fundamental rights to the government. Nobody wants to stick out as the dumb science-denier!
THIS. very well put. wish I could do something else to express how I feel about this beside giving your comment a like and response.
Dr Iron Arc
Into the Unknown
- Feb 10, 2020
- 21,393
I don't mind as much if people here don't like me because at least they'd be more likely to celebrate when I'm finally gone. You all know who you are. 👁👁
I like you. You seem to suffer a lot. I can relate to your posts. And I like your profile picture.
whatevs
Mining for copium in the weirdest places.
- Jan 15, 2022
- 2,912
Al Cappella
Are we there yet?
- Feb 2, 2022
- 888
People don't like me either—at least not at first. But I seem to grow on them after awhile, like mold. Or barnacles.
Pluto
Cat Extremist
- Dec 27, 2020
- 5,673
In my childhood environment, I was universally despised as the scapegoat of my family, then an easy target for bullies throughout school. I have rarely felt 'liked' ever since, though it is easy to see why. Also keep in mind we will tend to notice negativity more than positivity because it confirms/aligns with the childhood experience. I'm going to guess it is a similar story for you and many others here. Just be mindful of the true origin of this feeling.
Dr Iron Arc
Into the Unknown
- Feb 10, 2020
- 21,393
Nah, that honor goes to @Brick In The Wall and his posts are better than mine.Do you have the highest post count in here?
I always blow people off who contact me in 1 on 1 conversation, but it's because I just don't have the energy for the private chats and prefer the message board format. I hope none of them took it personally as if I didn't like them.
It might be the case for your attempts to socialize as well since so many people here are depressed and anxious.
