Done with people leaving me

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I'm so done with people leaving me. It's always the same thing.
"I will always be there for you". You open up to them etc, they stay with you for who knows how long; months, this time even years. They say it's not you, it's them. But they still end up leaving you in the end. And there's nothing you can do, no matter how much effort you put into it.

I know it's wrong to put my life into other people's hands. I know it's wrong to make my life depended on relationships. But I've been through too much trauma. I'm done with losing all the people I trust and care about.
I'm done knowing that people stop caring about me.
I just can't do this anymore.

I just want out already.

 

[Lucilius]

Overcoming the need for others is the best investment one can make in life.

 

[Goodgirlryeo101]

I'm so sorry that you feel this way and that that's what life for you has become. Most humans are incredibly selfish and only care about themselves unless if there is some sort of benefit or there is something to bond about be it "gossiping" they will do anything but be obsessed with you and everything you do they will claim to hate you but won't stop talking and watching your every move. They will go to those who they used to speak badly of and do anything because they are that desperate.

Please don't place any hope on any living human being as you will always end up being disappointed.

I hope you will learn to comes to terms with this unfortunate reality.

I wish you all the best with whatever decision you decide to make in the future.

Overcoming the need for others is the best investment one can make in life.

True, I wish I knew this years ago and I would have sorely focus on myself and my goals in life.

 

[The anhedonic one]

I'm so tired of this too.
Tired of being disappointed, let down and ghosted for no logical reason whatsoever.
I'm now in a terrible limbo state of wanting to completely isolate myself from people to protect myself, and of being incredibly lonely.

 

[FuneralCry]

It's just the reality that you cannot rely on and trust other people in this cruel world, humans are so incredibly disappointing and very often just create more suffering and problems. But anyway it's really understandable just wishing to be gone, it's true that there's too much pain in existing and it's awful how existing here can very easily get much worse.

 

[enough of this]

I'm so done with people leaving me. It's always the same thing.
"I will always be there for you". You open up to them etc, they stay with you for who knows how long; months, this time even years. They say it's not you, it's them. But they still end up leaving you in the end. And there's nothing you can do, no matter how much effort you put into it.

I know it's wrong to put my life into other people's hands. I know it's wrong to make my life depended on relationships. But I've been through too much trauma. I'm done with losing all the people I trust and care about.
I'm done knowing that people stop caring about me.
I just can't do this anymore.

I just want out already.

I feel exactly the same. So many people have left me after telling me they would be there for me.

 

[Z3RO]

I will never understand how someone can love someone so much they would do anything for them, and the other person says these things only for them to leave.