Yes and no. The yes comes from my view that it is sensible to rule out physical issues, and attempt at options that exist before settling on suicide as a solution. As suicide as a choice is not going anywhere. It is frustrating seeing some members telling other members how doomed they are because of their own experiences, so they shouldn't risk it. Like their experience will be theirs as if they are a psychic able to predict the outcome of a person yet to try. But then this site is going to attract a negativity bias, I don't think it can be helped.
It is frustrating seeing entire professions denigrated like they are all the same. I was damaged by my doctor, but do not assume all doctors will damage me. For the exact same reason, I don't assume all suicidal people will shoot up schools because some have.
Some of it is my own envy at work, of physically healthy people having so much potential to overcome things that are not set in medical stone. That though is my projection at work. Is this thread yours? However. mental health has its own variant of stone. When you are told you are treatment-resistant and you should focus on quality of life concerns. Plenty of members here have definitely reached that point. That brings its own pain and justifiable hopelessness.
The no. The no comes from understanding pain is unique to everyone. The capacity to cope is equally unique. The circumstances a person is in also unique. How well they articulate the problem is also variable. Some people focus on a trivial issue instead of something far worse as a method to cope. One of my clients killed themselves seemingly over Acne. Long term sustained injuries told a very different story.
Since I am not a psychic either, with mind-reading powers I can use on forum members. I view it as impolite to judge others based on what I don't know. I also keep in mind the phenomena of learned helplessness. Something you might want to look into if you want to understand why people remain on here caught in limbo between trying at life or dying but choosing neither. Whilst venting about what they hate only to realise a year has gone by. It is also social media, people are going to vent about what they hate, that is a given and potentially a useful outlet.
Pretty good article on learned helplessness here. It is utterly horrific.
https://youarenotsosmart.com/2009/11/11/learned-helplessness/
Loss of something you value is a sharp pain. It does not matter if it is your forty-year long marriage partner. A former boyfriend you are smitten with or your pet hamster. Loss hurts if what you had was valuable. At that moment that hurt can feel eternal even though it is not.
Being in states of deprivation is an erosive pain. I am not just talking basic needs either. It would seem so many members here are barely on Maslow's hierarchy of needs. Living in chronic states of fear which ensures greater loneliness and makes it harder to even access help as you are quite literally in your own way. It doesn't help if that help is also something you fear or is in a broken state to begin with.
It is a bit outdated now but another thing worth examining.
https://www.thoughtco.com/maslows-hierarchy-of-needs-4582571
Hopefully some food for thought and you will come back with restored compassion, sad to see you lose some of that.