Do you want to be remembered when your gone?

[technicallyAlive]

Title is pretty straightforward, but anyway earlier I was feeling anxious that people will eventually forget about me when I'm gone, and it occured to me that others might be feeling the same way. I know this sounds weird but if you want i can write down and recite your username every night before bed so that your never forgotten. And if you want you can ask for a song (song name + artist) that you want to be remembered by? The song is just a suggestion since i see people wanting to be remembered by songs. If you dont want a song you can ask for a poem or just some last words.

the formatting will look something like -> username + song/poem/last words
(you can have all three if you want! or none at all. up to you! :]

again, apologies if this comes off as creepy, just trying to provide some solace to those who need it <3
(edit: rephrased some things)

 

[SufferingInDenmark]

that's cute, i like it.
username: SufferinginDenmark + bittersweet symphony by The Verve
i haven't really thought of any last words or like what my tomb stone in the future would say... :)

 

[technicallyAlive]

that's cute, i like it.
username: SufferinginDenmark + bittersweet symphony by The Verve
i haven't really thought of any last words or like what my tomb stone in the future would say... :)

all right, i wrote it down! and thats alright if you dont know yet, but if you ever figure out what your last words or tombstone might say lmk and ill write that next to your name as well! (if you want ofc)

 

[1993]

This is one of the sweetest things I have seen in a while! Thank you, it will be appreciated by a lot of people.

Personally I just don't want to exist. It's fine if people remember me (they will, I'm part of their life), but my preference would be to kind of "vanish" but not to be erased

 

[Valhala]

No, I consider it completely irrelevant and unimportant.

 

[technicallyAlive]

This is one of the sweetest things I have seen in a while! Thank you, it will be appreciated by a lot of people.

No problem, everybodys welcome! I'm glad to offer some comfort to those who need it! :]

Personally I just don't want to exist. It's fine if people remember me (they will, I'm part of their life), but my preference would be to kind of "vanish" but not to be erased

That makes sense! Me personally I'm not very social so i dont have a lot of people who will remember me when im gone. I made this thread for those who might be in the same boat as me. And to clarify, you *would* like to be remembered right? (drawn in my notebook?)

No, I consider it completely irrelevant and unimportant.

Everybody views things differently and thats ok! You don't have to be remembered if you dont want too. its your life, your choice! Good luck and stay safe:]

 

[FuneralCry]

No, all I want is to be forgotten about, I want it to be like I never suffered in this cruel, torturous existence at all, I wish for this futile existence I personally always saw as a mistake to disappear. I wish for no more pain and no more suffering and I'll just always find it so painful to suffer in this existence, if it's up to me I'd choose to permanently erase my existence as all I wish for is some peace, I just want to never exist ever again, for me non-existence truly is all that's positive and I'd always prefer to not exist but more than anything I just wish I was never burdened with this existence that just caused all this suffering all for the sake of it.

 

[Ligottian]

Hell no!

 

[getoutgirl]

Oooh this is too kind of you really. Thank you for taking the time to do this and being so thoughtful.
I personally would Not want to be remembered by those that knew me. I don't want to leave a bad taste. I often fantasize about going POOF and gone from history.
But I don't want to comment to just say that, so here's a lot of hugs at ya, remember to take care instead of me <3333333

 

[technicallyAlive]

Oooh this is too kind of you really. Thank you for taking the time to do this and being so thoughtful.
I personally would Not want to be remembered by those that knew me. I don't want to leave a bad taste. I often fantasize about going POOF and gone from history.
But I don't want to comment to just say that, so here's a lot of hugs at ya, remember to take care instead of me <3333333

Thank you for the sweet reply! I don't know you personally, but imo you sound like such a sweet person! I think you would be a lovely person to remember, but again its your wish. If you ever change your mind let me know! Good luck and take care of yourself <3

 

[SufferingInDenmark]

all right, i wrote it down! and thats alright if you dont know yet, but if you ever figure out what your last words or tombstone might say lmk and ill write that next to your name as well! (if you want ofc)

thank you so much <3

 

[taxicab]

Title is pretty straightforward, but anyway earlier I was feeling anxious that people will eventually forget about me when I'm gone, and it occured to me that others might be feeling the same way. I know this sounds weird but if you want i can write down and recite your username every night before bed so that your never forgotten. And if you want you can ask for a song (song name + artist) that you want to be remembered by? The song is just a suggestion since i see people wanting to be remembered by songs. If you dont want a song you can ask for a poem or just some last words.

the formatting will look something like -> username + song/poem/last words
(you can have all three if you want! or none at all. up to you! :]

again, apologies if this comes off as creepy, just trying to provide some solace to those who need it <3
(edit: rephrased some things)

this is really thoughtful, I'm leaving tonight so thank you for this

taxicab - where i belong by switchfoot

 

[catfriend]

this is really sweet!! personally, i don't want to (or need to) be remembered. we all get forgotten on a large enough time scale, anyway. :)

 

[bipolar22]

I'm have a shitty personality. Shouldn't have been born. In fact my mother wanted to abort me but it was too late. So no.

 

[monolog]

No

 

[moya117]

you're so sweet i want to be remembered, except for my sister and mother if that makes sense.

mine is:
moya117 - Moonlight On the River by Mac DeMarco

ykw, can i start writing this on my note too?
and if you don't mind me asking, what would you like to be remembered by?

 

[technicallyAlive]

you're so sweet i want to be remembered, except for my sister and mother if that makes sense.

mine is:
moya117 - Moonlight On the River by Mac DeMarco

ykw, can i start writing this on my note too?
and if you don't mind me asking, what would you like to be remembered by?

Of course you can do this too, and thank you for asking! if im being totally honest there are so many songs i feel resonate with me it'd be hard to choose… I honestly can't choose between Hymn by Moxy Phinx or I wish for the rain by liana flores.. If you end up listening to these songs you could just write down whichever you like best! :]

this is really thoughtful, I'm leaving tonight so thank you for this

taxicab - where i belong by switchfoot

Anytime buddy. I hope you find the peace your looking for

this is really sweet!! personally, i don't want to (or need to) be remembered. we all get forgotten on a large enough time scale, anyway. :)

Thank you for the sweet reply, and yeah I get where your coming from. Lmk if you ever change your mind! <3

 

[moya117]

Of course you can do this too, and thank you for asking! if im being totally honest there are so many songs i feel resonate with me it'd be hard to choose… I honestly can't choose between Hymn by Moxy Phinx or I wish for the rain by liana flores.. If you end up listening to these songs you could just write down whichever you like best! :]

thank you for telling! tbh i too am confused of what song that i resonate the most so i just choose the one that comforts me. i heard hymn before i think, might look into the rest
edit: i listen to both songs on yt, and i think the second one is more calming, mainly the lyrics

 

[locked*n*loaded]

For me it's not even a question. Not that I really care, anyway, but the choice has already been made for me. I don't have any remaining family alive, nor any friends. So, it's all kind of a mute point, anyway. Regardless, in the long run, everyone will be forgotten about, eventually. Once your immediate family passes on, and any friends you have, too, and then a generation or two goes by, there won't be anyone who knows who you are (were), so you'll be forgotten anyway. Don't think that's true? Go to a graveyard sometime and take a look at the older plots and markers. No one remembers those deceased persons after a certain amount of time goes by. No one visits their gravesites. It's just the natural order of things. Can't do anything about it.

 

[technicallyAlive]

thank you for telling! tbh i too am confused of what song that i resonate the most so i just choose the one that comforts me. i heard hymn before i think, might look into the rest
edit: i listen to both songs on yt, and i think the second one is more calming, mainly the lyrics

Yep! They're both pretty comforting to me, but yea I agree the second one is more soothing (prolly because I didnt discover that one from the excorsist lol)

For me it's not even a question. Not that I really care, anyway, but the choice has already been made for me. I don't have any remaining family alive, nor any friends. So, it's all kind of a mute point, anyway. Regardless, in the long run, everyone will be forgotten about, eventually. Once your immediate family passes on, and any friends you have, too, and then a generation or two goes by, there won't be anyone who knows who you are (were), so you'll be forgotten anyway. Don't think that's true? Go to a graveyard sometime and take a look at the older plots and markers. No one remembers those deceased persons after a certain amount of time goes by. No one visits their gravesites. It's just the natural order of things. Can't do anything about it.

Yeah I agree, we are helpless to do anything about that. Still I thought I should try and do what I could to try to provide some relief or comfort to those who didn't want to be forgotten or lost in the wind. I respect your decision though! Let me know if you change your mind.

 

[1993]

No problem, everybodys welcome! I'm glad to offer some comfort to those who need it! :]

That makes sense! Me personally I'm not very social so i dont have a lot of people who will remember me when im gone. I made this thread for those who might be in the same boat as me. And to clarify, you *would* like to be remembered right? (drawn in my notebook?)

Everybody views things differently and thats ok! You don't have to be remembered if you dont want too. its your life, your choice! Good luck and stay safe:]

Thank you, but I wouldn't like to be remembered. I just wanted to tell you that it made my day a bit better when I read your post :)

 

[technicallyAlive]

Thank you, but I wouldn't like to be remembered. I just wanted to tell you that it made my day a bit better when I read your post :)

Alright, that's okay. Let me know if you ever change your mind! <3