Do you like receiving pm’s?

[mediocre]

yes I do because it makes me feel like I have friends.. in real life I don't have anybody.

 

[dump224477]

yes pls pm me i'm so lonely

 

[tychai]

i enjoy any interaction that feels like im making a connection at this point, anchors me down and stops me from spiraling into a pit of loneliness even if it isnt too much at the end of the day

 

[yellowjester]

I only got PM'd once and it was some dude asking for an SN source

 

[Arachno]

I never recieved or sent a PM, I suck at communcating online just as much as in real life so I have no idea what it feels like, I imagine if I recieved one I would get extremely nervous and the whole communication would be meaningless garbage.

 

[Saturn_]

Yeah, except when they're asking for SN sources. I would just feel really bad handing out that kind of info, I don't know.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

Sure

 

[kilowatt]

I don't think I've ever received more than 1 pm, nor have I sent any. I wouldn't dislike any casual pms but that doesn't seem to matter since I don't get any.

 

[AmericanMary]

Nooooo. It feels like jail time to me when a stranger messages me a direct question about how to CTB. I've "ignored" soooo many people

 

[Ember]

So long as it's respectful I don't mind. I find it's polite to focus on what the other person wants though. So being very non intrusive and giving them an easy out is what I'd do. At least as far as I'm aware. Which I'm not very aware of much actually.

 

[Steff1337]

Yes, I'm always open to PMs, and can talk just about anything.

 

[CoRaven]

any pms are welcome.

 

[derpyderpins]

About the same. If I send someone a PM that wasn't prompted by a direct exchange in a thread - or if we haven't clearly established that we are on friendly terms - it's rare and I'm assuming that I am annoying the shit out of that person and ruining their day by reaching out first.

lol this policy has been reinforced. I should have assumed harder.

I like PMs and getting to know people but it will be on others to reach out first.

 

[DefinitelyReady]

lol this policy has been reinforced. I should have assumed harder.

I like PMs and getting to know people but it will be on others to reach out first.

I feel, you were a fan of bumble...


Cute when a thread comes back in style...

 

[derpyderpins]

I feel, you were a fan of bumble...


Cute when a thread comes back in style...

I know lol I couldn't resist checking how I answered the first time when I didn't really have many PMs.

The really fun thing about your comment is

Spoiler

Bumble is how I met my fiance

 

[DefinitelyReady]

I know lol I couldn't resist checking how I answered the first time when I didn't really have many PMs.

The really fun thing about your comment is

Spoiler

Bumble is how I met my fiance

I hesistated... because I thought it was a tad rude, and could make you feel the need to reveal details about meeting your fiance, but, I swear to god, I had initially put, "So you met your fiance on bumble then, no?"
But then I changed it. You wonder why I mock my therapists.... The show that was just playing, the guy had girl issues too, so he had to kill them... not the same thing, but still on the same spectrum. Just, maybe at completely different ends.

 

[derpyderpins]

I hesistated... because I thought it was a tad rude, and could make you feel the need to reveal details about meeting your fiance, but, I swear to god, I had initially put, "So you met your fiance on bumble then, no?"
But then I changed it. You wonder why I mock my therapists....

I'm pretty sure I've already said at some time on here that we met on an app, I just never specified which one was ultimately successful. You can always poke for info. If it's too personal to be public I'll DM.

I did hear they changed the women messaging first thing, which was the whole appeal to me so I don't get it.

And I don't wonder why you mock your therapists lol I'd only be confused if there was someone you didn't mock at least a little.

The show that was just playing had girls issues too, so he had to kill them... not the same thing, but still on the same spectrum. Just, maybe at completely different ends.

I knew television led to violence.

 

[DefinitelyReady]

I'm pretty sure I've already said at some time on here that we met on an app, I just never specified which one was ultimately successful. You can always poke for info. If it's too personal to be public I'll DM.

I did hear they changed the women messaging first thing, which was the whole appeal to me so I don't get it.

And I don't wonder why you mock your therapists lol I'd only be confused if there was someone you didn't mock at least a little.


I knew television led to violence.

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That damn episode made me cry. Hadn't seen it in many years, knew the bitch was coming at some point, I just didn't remember when the "got you" moment would get me. But it did. I Pollyanna'd myself.


I super vaguely remember an app? or maybe I just am because you're telling me to? But I certainly didn't remember anything about an app when I asked it then erased it. I figured it was at a dinner party or something. I had no idea. Maybe it's in the dms. Maybe it's on here? I don't know what Im supposed to be "poking" at? Im so lost lol Well I don't mock strangers or neighbors, that's just awkward so I mock myself instead. I think it's weird to not mock someone. Like children and the elderly are not off limits I'm not an amateur...

The show is Criminal Minds. It's not violent. It could be on PBS!

 

[derpyderpins]

I super vaguely remember an app? or maybe I just am because you're telling me to? But I certainly didn't remember anything about an app when I asked it then erased it. I figured it was at a dinner party or something. I had no idea. Maybe it's in the dms. Maybe it's on here?

I mean I do talk to people other than you lol it's probably on threads about how hard male dating is. I normally share my stories and I probably said that after hundreds of swipes with no messages or dates I got one and put a ring on it.

I don't know what Im supposed to be "poking" at? Im so lost lol

haha I just mean don't feel you have to censor yourself when asking me something.

Well I don't mock strangers or neighbors, that's just awkward so I mock myself instead. I think it's weird to not mock someone. Like children and the elderly are not off limits I'm not an amateur...

children often deserve extra mocking imo

 

[DefinitelyReady]

I mean I do talk to people other than you lol it's probably on threads about how hard male dating is. I normally share my stories and I probably said that after hundreds of swipes with no messages or dates I got one and put a ring on it.


haha I just mean don't feel you have to censor yourself when asking me something.


children often deserve extra mocking imo

Well I was js I didn't recall reading that, whether it be on the forum or dms so I didn't have any "help" in my guess.

Since when do I censor? I didn't know what info I was allegedly "poking" into/asking. Still don't All I did was guess bumble correctly. I don't know where the birds and the bees entered; I mean I know where they go... just not in this conversation

They do. Children have abnormally large heads at that age and you had to knock em down into their place or they will try to mock you first
I mocked my niece before she could even talk back verbally... I was "warned" by her Mod Mom though...

 

[void kitty]

I don't mind them, unless they're done for some bad intention or reqs. I'd like to know some people here.

 

[Dark Moon]

I don't mind but I'm not one to be messaging people first usually and my social skill is not great.

 

[Kapsyl]

I use to like it, I even messaged some users myself. The most intriguing conversation I had was with a user here who has sadly passed away now. He used the scuba method but we mostly discussed the physical and physiological properties upon the last moments of life.

Nowadays I dread messages. It's only people begging me to hold their hand, essentially guiding them every step of the way not bothering looking up the available information themself.

I get the inert method can be somewhat technical and troublesome, but those questions belong on the public forum. Where I'm happy to help, if the question is valid and not out of laziness. I'm just kinda sick of people messaging me, treating me as their personnel death guru or something

Next person who's messaging out of laziness, I'm not going to hold back

 

[Nobody Special]

Not unless asked for.

 

[1043169]

If you want. I'm social awkward and don't always know what to say, but if someone wants to chat I'm here.

 

[KuriGohan&Kamehameha]

yeah, despite being here for years I've only had very few people initiate conversations with me
But it sorta makes sense because I'm a rambling autist and not an eloquent shitposter

 

[ham and potatoes]

Wait, you guys are getting PMs? Haha

 

[NumbItAll]

Yes but unfortunately I'm not very interesting to talk to.

 

[Tr3dorz]

Yes, but I use Google Translate, so my comments often won't make sense.

 

[Edpal247]

So far the few I've gotten have been fine. Fire away!
The chats seem like nonsense to me I can't hang!
The chats seem like nonsense to me I can't hang!