ctoan

ctoan

Arcanist
Sep 30, 2018
437
you throw away a lot of opportunities if youre too fat/thin


i know it because i was underweight/normalweight/overweight during my life so far


and lm not talking about the dating market exclusively - its crazy how different people treat you in general
 
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Maravillosa

Maravillosa

Господи помилуй — мир в Україні!
Sep 7, 2018
689
Yes. I am 5'5" (1.65 m) and 275 pounds (125 kg). I have had trouble with my weight for most of my life. I have been heavier, however: a bit more than two years ago I weighed about 325 pounds (147 kg). If and when I ctb by full suspension hanging, I will have to find a ligature and a place to attach the ligature that can bear my weight. Ah well!
 
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Gainax

Gainax

Experienced
Oct 8, 2018
265
i also have weight problems so far i managed to loose 60 pounds working out in the gym but still need to loose 80 pounds, and yes it affects in all kind of areas of my life..mainly being able to get a decent job and that its the thing that fucks with my head, being good in something and companies wont even give me a chance for an interview because of the way i look and my age, to them im too old, i fucking hate this judgemental society
 
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Trashcan

Trashcan

Trash
Aug 31, 2018
1,234
I have gained over 20 pounds in a year and am barely in the healthy weight range for my height. Very close to being considered overweight. But I stepped up my exercising and have noticed some of my pants being a bit looser.
 
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tothemetalsickness

tothemetalsickness

World of Warcraft gamer
Oct 4, 2018
67
I am 168cm with 58kg. I do not think I have the problem.
 
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BlackDragonof1989

BlackDragonof1989

Mage
Jul 12, 2018
526
Yeah since I reached my adult height of 5'10" I have ranged from 155 or so up to 255, now I'm at 235 and wanna lose more weight again. Get down to 170 but yeah I don't like being a bit plus size.
 
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dman12009

Member
Oct 1, 2018
39
Yes. I am 5'5" (1.65 m) and 275 pounds (125 kg). I have had trouble with my weight for most of my life. I have been heavier, however: a bit more than two years ago I weighed about 325 pounds (147 kg). If and when I ctb by full suspension hanging, I will have to find a ligature and a place to attach the ligature that can bear my weight. Ah well!
Yeah it sucks because I am a heavy person as well and it really has stopped me from being able to properly hang myself
 
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millefeui

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2018
1,034
I am not over- or underweight. I weight about 60kg (and I am 1,69cm tall) or so. That said, fat is really stubborn on my body, and loves to stay in the belly area; That is really the only reason I mostly stay on keto diet.
 
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tothemetalsickness

tothemetalsickness

World of Warcraft gamer
Oct 4, 2018
67
I am not over- or underweight. I weight about 60k (and I am 1,69cm tall) so. That said, fat is really stubborn on my body, and loves to stay in the belly area; That is really the only reason I mostly stay on keto diet.
I do believe we do have the same shape XD
 
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ParamitePie

ParamitePie

Experienced
Oct 11, 2018
218
An almost completely sedentary lifestyle and not caring about my health left me grossly overweight. This year, I've lost 80 lb. through proper dieting and routine exercise. It's not like weight is going to hold me back with my chosen method, but I'd prefer to leave a more handsome corpse. Vain, I know.

As an aside, on the topic of the dating market, my body weight never seemed to impact my attractiveness too greatly. I've always found the fact that women could find me attractive most confusing, but even relative strangers (a clerk at a book store I frequented, for instance) have asked for my number.
 
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millefeui

Enlightened
Mar 31, 2018
1,034
As an aside, on the topic of the dating market, my body weight never seemed to impact my attractiveness too greatly. I've always found the fact that women could find me attractive most confusing, but even relative strangers (a clerk at a book store I frequented, for instance) have asked for my number.
I have dated overweight people more than once. Oh, and also a severely underweight girl. It never really crossed my mind that attractive people must be thin. I think if the person has a nice face (...sorry, I like pretty faces) and is overall nice/gentle/charismatic, that is all I can ask for.
 
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bunny

bunny

保管
Oct 3, 2018
364
been underweight for most of my life because i have anorexia nervosa
 
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ctoan

ctoan

Arcanist
Sep 30, 2018
437
I have dated overweight people more than once. Oh, and also a severely underweight girl. It never really crossed my mind that attractive people must be thin. I think if the person has a nice face (...sorry, I like pretty faces) and is overall nice/gentle/charismatic, that is all I can ask for.


it depends where you store you fat and if it suits you.

some people are fairly lean an bmi of 30 and some people already get a bloated face, no jawline but double chin with a bmi of 24
 
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Angst Filled Fuck Up

Angst Filled Fuck Up

Visionary
Sep 9, 2018
2,982
I'm 6'5'' and 240lbs, and I tend to scare little kids even if I'm just doing my thing. I kind of swing around by 20-40lbs. I will pig out for a month and then diet for a month, typically.
 
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jaemus12

jaemus12

Earth’s Parasite
May 11, 2018
562
I think so. I am 5.7 and about 145lbs. I have a beer belly filled with fast food and..alcohol I guess? I look like I'm in the early stages of pregnancy.
 
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TooLate2582

Experienced
May 6, 2018
268
Do eating disorders count?
 
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Deafsn0w

Deafsn0w

I will buy you a dog if you like my posts
Sep 4, 2018
2,488
yes recently. in two years i've gained about 35 pounds due to my antidepressants. cause i never had weight problems before.
 
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BaconCheeseburger

BaconCheeseburger

Comfort-eating
Aug 4, 2018
693
When I turned 21 it was like my metabolism suddenly realised it had been giving me an easy ride, and I've fluctuated up and down (mostly up) ever since then. I've been coming off my antidepressants recently though and I've found that has caused me to lose weight... So umm... Yay?
 
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RottingFlowerBrains

RottingFlowerBrains

Student
Sep 10, 2018
193
Underweight
 
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ctoan

ctoan

Arcanist
Sep 30, 2018
437
Do eating disorders count?
yes ofc,anorexia is as bad as massiv obesity when it comes to physical attraction. its not the best possible you

ive also noticed that a lot of bullemic people have a very thin (too thin) body but a very bloated face​
 
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Gainax

Gainax

Experienced
Oct 8, 2018
265
the hardest thing for me was the weight loss plateau, i managed to loose 60 pounds in 9 months, but after that for and year and a half...nada
no matter how hard i trained the weight stayed the same..lost some..regained some..its been a battle
 
AndyCurious

AndyCurious

Warlock
Sep 13, 2018
707
I'm less good looking with my 277 lbs and 6'3, but I have been almost 300 lbs, so at least it's going the right way :) I have to, bc when hung, I need something that can hold a ton..<3
 
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AndyCurious

AndyCurious

Warlock
Sep 13, 2018
707
Yes. I am 5'5" (1.65 m) and 275 pounds (125 kg). I have had trouble with my weight for most of my life. I have been heavier, however: a bit more than two years ago I weighed about 325 pounds (147 kg). If and when I ctb by full suspension hanging, I will have to find a ligature and a place to attach the ligature that can bear my weight. Ah well!
Curvy women are charming :-)
 
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Gainax

Gainax

Experienced
Oct 8, 2018
265
all i want i to leave a beautiful corpse, my gift to this world
 
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lv-gras

fledermausßßßßßßßß
Jul 27, 2018
617
used to have problems with over weight, now the opposite due to harsh anorexia
 
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worldexploder

worldexploder

Visionary
Sep 19, 2018
2,821
I'm 6'2 and weigh 310. I lost around 100 pounds twice before gaining it all back again. Food addiction sucks, I'm constantly hungry and my appetite is insane! I never truly eat until I am satisfied. If I did I'd be on My 600 lb Life. Been the same weight now since around 2010.
 
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