Do you feel happier being isolated?

[cemeteryismyhome]

Isolation is bliss. Solitary confinement would be heaven. I don't hate people but they do make me tired and uncomfortable. In my mind I am completely alone.

 

[lostintheraincirce]

I like it. I felt better when I got a house on my own, without having to answer to my parents anymore, lonely.

 

[divinemistress36]

Most the time. Every now and then I want to be around friends

 

[OptingOutSmiling]

Yes, I can relate. Don't need a tv though, just a laptop and wi-fi and I'm happy. Before I could also live with books only, but I stopped reading some time ago.

 

[easypeasy]

Yes, I can relate. Don't need a tv though, just a laptop and wi-fi and I'm happy. Before I could also live with books only, but I stopped reading some time ago.

Love that! I can relate to not needing a tv, too! I just needed a place to walk and something to read. That changed due to chronic pain. I need the distraction but yes I can relate!

 

[patheticparasite]

I wouldn't say I'm happy in isolation, but it definitely puts me at ease. The Covid period was nice because it felt normal doing what everyone else was doing.

 

[cme-dme]

Yes but I think I would be consumed by loneliness if I did not speak to anybody at all. Outside of work I rarely speak to people IRL. Online friends fill the loneliness void for me. I feel safe in my room sealed away from the world and most people I end up meeting just hurt me in the end. At home I often only really come out of my room when everyone is at work or asleep. I think I just have a natural instinct for avoiding people.

 

[vitbar]

When I was a teenager it did ease my issues, until it didn't and I felt cripplingly lonely. More recently I've again fallen into the pattern of isolation without the loneliness.

Not sure if I'm happier, or just less stressed. My happiest moments have involved people. I love having a social life, but wish it didn't come with anxiety. I wish I had more time outside of simply surviving.

 

[DarknessWave]

I like being isolated because it means i don't have to worry about doing stupid stuff and hurting other people around me.

 

[Reticent Being]

Talking to others can be triggering for me, especially if I'm not being understood properly or being ignored. I'm sensitive to how others perceive me. my self worth is tied to them, so when I am alone, I'm more free. I get angry easily. I'm not good at communicating with others. I rather shut down. Social skills doesnt come naturally to me and it shows . I have not been someone people want to be around. by being alone, I'm probs doing someone a favor.

it makes me happy/relieved to not be around anyone. Some people aren't caring and view others as objects. People always passed over me because I was too quiet(bc social anxiety) and boring for them. No networking event, no school, no clubs, nothing changed this.

Now, I'm realizing I'm never enough and the connection with others isn't there. Most people are too dedicated to their biological family or their work to care about an outsider.

I don't feel alone bcause i still interact with ideas and thoughts from other people, just in a more manageable way. Like a book or an online article gives me information, but isn't as emotionally demanding. Luckily, I value connections in different forms; it's about quality not.. don't think I'm "missing" out. However, i do feel left out like I never had a chance to have friends.