Discussion Do you ever think about the funeral?

[Altalune]

Personally, I do, to a morbid degree. My three best friends are there, my boyfriend is there. They're all in shock, they don't understand what happened because I never told them. Maybe they hate me.

My family is there, they definitely hate me for soiling their reputation, but they're keeping up appearances for everyone's sake.

People from college, some professors who did me wrong, some acquaintances... All there and regretting the wrong things they did. Just there to clear their conscience.

I don't know if I'll ever see it, but somehow the thought gives me comfort.

 

[letmejoindeath]

At least your family is there.

When I imagine my funeral I don't know 1 person who would be in the room.

 

[FuneralCry]

No, I don't want one. I just want to be forgotten about like I never existed at all.

 

[kilowatt]

No. In fact I mentioned in my note I don't want my family to go through the entire religious process and effort. I just know that my funeral won't be an open casket one, I don't really care for the event itself. There's not gonna be many people coming.

 

[Some place nice]

I want to be cremated and thrown some where, idc where. I dont want my family it have my ashes.

 

[xyazyppgy]

My mother recently died. I couldn't really get any closure until the funeral. There could be people in your life that would benefit from the closure. Not at all to take away from anyone's right to die or CTB on their own volition. I know I have people in my life who would be sad once I CTB, however, those who truly understand me would respect the closure and autonomy that I chose my own death on my own volition.

 

[UKscotty]

Nope. I won't be here to experience it and I know most people won't care anyway.

We're soon forgotten and people will move on.

 

[skewedpanic]

No, I don't want one. I just want to be forgotten about like I never existed at all.

I have a will and it says that I'm to be directly cremated and disposed of by the crematorium and that nobody is to take possession of my remains.

That's assuming my body can even be found, as my best plan is to make sure that I just disappear without any chance of being found.