Do parents breed for the hormone-high? I wish I wasn't born- rant

[itsamadworld]

1980 was a horrible year for me! It was the year I unfortunately slid out of my biological mother's cervix , and was spewed into hell. I was the third, and she was tired of raising kids,...I was watching a documentary the other day, and it was titled Babies, (I think) ... Anyways, the science behind childbirth....How breeders develop their oo-wee/goowee feelings towards babies. Its the hormone- high/ to be specific, the oxitocin released after the arrival of an infant that makes the breeder feel out-of-this-world! But the high ( like every other high) it only lastsfor so long...The documentary said for like a year, or maybe two at most, after the arrival of baby, then it goes away!....And both parents expirience a hormone high! Breeders are so goddamn selfish! I wonder if some of them do it for the hormone-high, and then they judge addicts and some of them are terrible people!? Like my parents judged me, made my life hell with their constant fighting and the authoritarian regime they lead......I'm child free , and judged for my additions, but I atleast didn't put an innocent child into this crap! yet they were addicts to hormones-amoungst other things! Such hypocrisy! And my parents addictions did a lot more damage to the planet and to me! I wish I were never born!.....I think breeders are the epidimy of selfish and addicted!

 

[Realist101]

Yep, it's an evil biological trick. People claim to care about the people they create, but they end up causing all of their suffering and deaths. Birth only happens due to a horrible combination of carelessness, ignorance, impulsive urges, selfishness, and sadism.

The breeders call child free people selfish, after the breeders caused all the suffering and death of everyone. It's unbelievable.

 

[Underwhelming]

I completely understand how you feel - you're forced into an existence because two people decided to bump uglies, and you have no choice in the matter, as you're ripped from nothingness and then thrown into life to be born, work, suffer, and then die. Did they have any more children after you?

 

[itsamadworld]

Yep, it's an evil biological trick. People claim to care about the people they create, but they end up causing all of their suffering and deaths. Birth only happens due to a horrible combination of carelessness, ignorance, impulsive urges, selfishness, and sadism.

The breeders call child free people selfish, after the breeders caused all the suffering and death of everyone. It's unbelievable.

Good point. Breeders claim to love their offspring, but end up causing all our torments, all the fears, the constant pain, the evil people we cross in our lives, all the disappointments, a few moments of joy- about as quick as an orgasm, 15 minutes of fame at best, and then our deaths....Breeders are very sadistic....sometimes when I interact with them at work, I do have to split my own mind in order to like them.....it's my little biological trick...lol

I completely understand how you feel - you're forced into an existence because two people decided to bump uglies, and you have no choice in the matter, as you're ripped from nothingness and then thrown into life to be born, work, suffer, and then die. Did they have any more children after you?

Bump uglies....teehee... totally true though

 

[Blu_1]

I can hear your pain @itsamadworld

My parents had a marriage of convenience. After years of martial turbulence in the middle of their bickering it was revealed my birth was an accident. I am here because in the end mother only took the abortion pill(which caused bleeding and it deterred her from further surgical procedure). I think I have forgiven my parents for telling me.

There are days I resent being born. There are days I resent my inadequacy to prosper into society's ideal child. It's very complicated.

 

[Mr2005]

Being born isn't the reason you want to die. To make it wrong is wrong

 

[Death.]

If you truly care about your unborn children and love them deeply, you will not subject them to this horrible, cruel and wicked world.

No one can guarantee what type of life your children have. However you can guarantee that they DON'T SUFFER by NOT CONCEIVING THEM in the first place.

By deliberately choosing to give birth you SANCTION the death of you child. Death is the only certainty of life.

Yes, the need to reproduce is biological ingrained in our DNA but if we succumb to EVERY biological URGE without applying THOUGHT and REASON behind our actions we would be no better than ANIMALS.

 

[faust]

I know some people become very nasty when the child is born.
And you probably never heard about severe postpartum depression, so in this case I disagree with you.
Edit: however at the same time I am sorry life is tough to you...

 

[Kikoo Loool]

Breeding instinct has been selected by hundreds of millions of years of evolution, as well as survival instinct... these two instincts drive the animal realm. Humans like animals just can't help copulating and even when they may use contraception their instinct says: it would be better to impregnate her/being impregnated by him. The whole selfish human behaviours are driven by breeding instinct and survival instinct. They are our collective curse.

 

[DeepSleep]

I would like to draw a line between men and women because its so prominent and dramatic.
Men are visual and abstract beings. A man can easily live alone, thinking through a chosen idea - carving up and chiseling a theory of Everything, a new religion, a code of law. Or he can join a brotherhood along with other men - as a monk, as a warrior or knight, as a thief, or scholar, or explorer.

Women, as sinister and vile creatures as they are, are more primitive but also hellishly effective.
Between 20 and 27 years of age she has to single out the fittest male in her proximity, tie him up legally, get herself impregnated quickly, give birth, and keep this male as a provider. Trading her ageing pussy and household tasks for his biological lust impulses.

I pity a lot of younger guys who fall prey to long legs and shaven pussy and lose their head "Oh it's my chosen one, I'll stay with her forever. I'll everything for her or I'll die". Fucking bullshit, man. You got a hormonal storm working against you.

 

[faust]

I would like to draw a line between men and women because its so prominent and dramatic.
Men are visual and abstract beings. A man can easily live alone, thinking through a chosen idea - carving up and chiseling a theory of Everything, a new religion, a code of law. Or he can join a brotherhood along with other men - as a monk, as a warrior or knight, as a thief, or scholar, or explorer.

Women, as sinister and vile creatures as they are, are more primitive but also hellishly effective.
Between 20 and 27 years of age she has to single out the fittest male in her proximity, tie him up legally, get herself impregnated quickly, give birth, and keep this male as a provider. Trading her ageing pussy and household tasks for his biological lust impulses.

I pity a lot of younger guys who fall prey to long legs and shaven pussy and lose their head "Oh it's my chosen one, I'll stay with her forever. I'll everything for her or I'll die". Fucking bullshit, man. You got a hormonal storm working against you.

Sounds like you are from men's movement with a bit of a radical inclination, am I right?
Because I used to hear these ideas before. There are even chat roulette bloggers who make their videos on this subject.

 

[itsamadworld]

I would like to draw a line between men and women because its so prominent and dramatic.
Men are visual and abstract beings. A man can easily live alone, thinking through a chosen idea - carving up and chiseling a theory of Everything, a new religion, a code of law. Or he can join a brotherhood along with other men - as a monk, as a warrior or knight, as a thief, or scholar, or explorer.

Women, as sinister and vile creatures as they are, are more primitive but also hellishly effective.
Between 20 and 27 years of age she has to single out the fittest male in her proximity, tie him up legally, get herself impregnated quickly, give birth, and keep this male as a provider. Trading her ageing pussy and household tasks for his biological lust impulses.

I pity a lot of younger guys who fall prey to long legs and shaven pussy and lose their head "Oh it's my chosen one, I'll stay with her forever. I'll everything for her or I'll die". Fucking bullshit, man. You got a hormonal storm working against you.

Blanks...I am a female who CHOSE NOT to have children. I was married to a man who wanted children. We divorced, he has five with someone other than me, now! I am also a military veteran, transportation! Are you are an angry male who thinks yourself the victim of your gender??! I must say, the knife cuts both ways, bro! I would abort any child, just because I would never breed with any of you men! And I was around arguably the MOST ALPHA. Lol

 

[4eyebiped]

I pity a lot of younger guys who fall prey to long legs and shaven pussy and lose their head "Oh it's my chosen one, I'll stay with her forever. I'll everything for her or I'll die". Fucking bullshit, man. You got a hormonal storm working against you.

You don't pity the ones that go for the hairy legs and afro pussies? Can't we all get a long and treat all pussy as equals? Okay, I was never good with comic relief. Just ignore me...

 

[waterbottleman]

You don't pity the ones that go for the hairy legs and afro pussies? Can't we all get a long and treat all pussy as equals? Okay, I was never good with comic relief. Just ignore me...

I laughed at your attempt. So you made at least one person laugh =D

 

[Epsilon0]

There are many reasons why people get pregnant. None are justified, considering the amount of pain and suffering every child is guaranteed to endure from the moment it opens its eyes until it is laid to rest.

 

[Death.]

Blanks...I am a female who CHOSE NOT to have children. I was married to a man who wanted children. We divorced, he has five with someone other than me, now! I am also a military veteran, transportation! Are you are an angry male who thinks yourself the victim of your gender??! I must say, the knife cuts both ways, bro! I would abort any child, just because I would never breed with any of you men! And I was around arguably the MOST ALPHA. Lol

You are quite obviously the exception and I acknowledged it as such.

Exceptions, by definition, do not account for the overwhelming incidence in the majority.

Men and womens' nature in the sexual market are quite blatantly obvious once we drop the charade of "love". It is almost always transactional. Unfortunately, this is too bitter a pill to swallow for many.

 

[Csmith8827]

To be 100℅ honest... they actually dont.

 

[brainpain2]

Attitudes around having children have evolved since the decade we were born in and decades before. Having kids was just something you did. The choice to not have children, at least in Western society, is less stigmatized as people are realizing it is , in fact a choice and not just something you have to do. Also abortion is less stigmatized.

I used to be mad at my parents for having me, as my entire life has been shit,some of it their fault despite having good intentions, some my brain's fault, some of it being of it being shitty decisions and some of it being the world (or the gods) hates me including handing me the gift of chronic pain.

I have since let go of the resentment towards my parents for having kids. I don't think they put much thought in it, but again back then no one did and even today most people don't. Im sure when they decided to have kids they "never thought it would happen to them" that they wouldn't get a perfect child that turned into a happy adult.

Another problem that DOES involve hormones is the craving for a BABY or KIDS that people have, not teenagers or grown adult children.