Die from giving birth

[DyingSoul]

In my opinion, creating life is basically creating need for the sake of need. The unborn cannot suffer, want, or need. I'm an antinatalist but it's not my job to tell people not to have kids.

This case just seems wrong to me. It's not like you're having the child because you want to be a mother. Why reproduce knowing you will CTB? Knowing the suffering that comes with life, do you really want to impose suffering on someone else?

Please rethink this. Like I said, abortion is really the only ethical choice I can see in this scenario.

It's unplanned to get pregnant. I found this out almost going 3 months. I was planning to ctb by taking couples of ibuprofen to hurt my stomache before i knew i was pregnant.

 

[Jane Doe]

obvious troll is obvious. How pathetic to troll a forum like this.

Agreed. Why even bother?

 

[Deafsn0w]

don't commit suicide by giving birth. instead just birth and give the child up for adoption. Then you can find a better method to cbt

 

[bigj75]

It's unplanned to get pregnant. I found this out almost going 3 months. I was planning to ctb by taking couples of ibuprofen to hurt my stomache before i knew i was pregnant.

I'll give the benefit of the doubt and believe you. If i was you i would ctb as soon as possible. Don't have the baby. I wouldn't risk trying to die during child birth and the child having a risky/poor upbringing.

 

[bigj75]

don't commit suicide by giving birth. instead just birth and give the child up for adoption. Then you can find a better method to cbt

Fuck no. I've studied psychology for years. your 70% more likely to be abused by your parents if you are adopted. A bunch of other percentages go up as well for adopted children.

 

[worldexploder]

It's unplanned to get pregnant. I found this out almost going 3 months. I was planning to ctb by taking couples of ibuprofen to hurt my stomache before i knew i was pregnant.

 

[scales]

Fuck no. I've studied psychology for years. your 70% more likely to be abused by your parents if you are adopted. A bunch of other percentages go up as well for adopted children.

Whoa whoa this is blatantly incorrect information and that is unacceptable. Please provide sources if you are going to make such ridiculous claims.

Here is an actual study done by researchers in the Netherlands http://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/1077559509342125

Among many others you can easily look up showing adopted children are statistically less likely to be abused or mistreated. The process of adoption for most families is incredibly long and grueling, it can take years and cost thousands of dollars, families who wish to adopt do so with a strong desire to do so and usually put more effort into their children as a result.

 

[DyingSoul]

obvious troll is obvious. How pathetic to troll a forum like this.

You are free not to answer this forum. I don't need your judgement. You shouldn't be here in the first place. Why are you here then, you are not going to ctb But judging people here? You are welcome to Ban list.

 

[Limbo]

You are free not to answer this forum. I don't need your judgement. You shouldn't be here in the first place. Why are you here then, you are not going to ctb But judging people here? You are welcome to Ban list.

Nah, Blocked.

 

[TheSternal]

Just because we are suffering doesn't mean all babies born in to this life will too. The vast majority of people love being alive and would never want to die. Just because we do doesn't mean her child will. For all we know her child could have an amazing life like many people.

DyingSoul you are making the right decision by giving your child to your sister and her husband and allowing that child to grow up in a good home. You seem to be making good decisions for your baby, but don't plan on dying while giving birth. I think the smartest option is to wait until you have given birth and know your baby is looked after and then decide on the option that suits you best.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

I thought it was a troll too, only because I don't see how you can intentionally kill yourself by way of accidental complications from childbirth, but then I'm not a woman and a little retarded at the best of times.

 

[DyingSoul]

Just because we are suffering doesn't mean all babies born in to this life will too. The vast majority of people love being alive and would never want to die. Just because we do doesn't mean her child will. For all we know her child could have an amazing life like many people.

DyingSoul you are making the right decision by giving your child to your sister and her husband and allowing that child to grow up in a good home. You seem to be making good decisions for your baby, but don't plan on dying while giving birth. I think the smartest option is to wait until you have given birth and know your baby is looked after and then decide on the option that suits you best.

Thank you for your understanding. Ill try your suggestion.

 

[BlackDragonof1989]

Yeah I think it's complicated I tend to err on pessimism when sober at least but I think things like our state of mind and perception is where it's all at. Now the causes for these perceptual differences I haven't figured out yet, but I don't judge you for your decision as long as you follow through with the adoption, if it were me personally I would try to stick it out and live for my child but then again to quit life say halfway through the child's development may be more damaging than giving it up for adoption and ctb then. I don't know, it's a pickle I'm stumped. Good luck in whatever you decide.

 

[Suicideisnirvana]

I hope this is a joke.

 

[bigj75]

I hope this is a joke.

Either op is forreal or is a dedicated troll.

 

[Rex]

Thread locked

deep sigh