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Chairbed3

Member
Sep 14, 2025
55
Same as title. Did anyone from here meet as a group in real life? I wish I could find some people from my city here.
 
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cemeteryismyhome

Paragon
Mar 15, 2025
971
No interest whatsoever but curious to know.
 
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Macedonian1987

Macedonian1987

Just a sad guy from Macedonia.
Oct 22, 2025
954
I wanted to meet with a woman I met here. She was around my age, but sadly she ctb a month and a half ago. I hope she's at peace. Unlike my parents and my so called acquaintances. She really understood my sadness. ;-;
(please don't ask me who she was, she told me to respect her privacy)
 
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lamy's sacred sleep

lamy's sacred sleep

what's a way to just be competent
Nov 22, 2024
1,518
yeah

I met two people (S and B) on here in a group
one who's dead who i'll call S here

it was great, we drank in a public park, listened to music
sang karaoke at my place, talked about life

I wish I had reached out to S sooner honestly 'cause I was too scared too for a long time
because who wants a pm being like "i saw in your bio that we're in the same city, wanna meet up"
but I tried it with B (just meeting up) and it went well enough.
So I thought why not reach out and see what happens.
 
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jiselle

jiselle

nvm i’ll live longer
Dec 24, 2025
13
I would like to meet someone else who wants to ctb so we could do it together. Less sad to go out side by side
 
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darksouls

darksouls

Illuminated
May 10, 2025
3,336
most people who write to me privately live on other continents
 
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Chairbed3

Member
Sep 14, 2025
55
yeah

I met two people (S and B) on here in a group
one who's dead who i'll call S here

it was great, we drank in a public park, listened to music
sang karaoke at my place, talked about life

I wish I had reached out to S sooner honestly 'cause I was too scared too for a long time
because who wants a pm being like "i saw in your bio that we're in the same city, wanna meet up"
but I tried it with B (just meeting up) and it went well enough.
So I thought why not reach out and see what happens.
That's great! I think it's risky too, but I wouldn't mind meeting if it were a group of 5 to 6 people.
 
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U. A.

U. A.

"Ultra Based" gigashad
Aug 8, 2022
2,601
Yes and it usually is a bad idea.
(this is but one of several examples)
 
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Afterglow

Afterglow

the best geoguessr player ever
Feb 22, 2025
377
Yes, i met my best friend Sienna on here.

after we quickly became friends, we actually scheduled a meetup a couple months later, it was awesome hanging out with her in person. We just did normal friend activities like going to an amusement park and watching anime in the hotel room. Glad we did it when we did it, she ended up taking her own life via SN poisoning 7 days after the trip.
 
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Praestat_Mori

Mori praestat, quam haec pati!
May 21, 2023
13,342
Yes, I met someone from SaSu irl and it was a great day.
 
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Exhausted546

Specialist
Dec 1, 2025
370
Anyone from Montreal here?

But yeah, I read some pretty horrific cases with serial killers hunting suicidal people. It wouldn't be an issue if it was simply a quick death but anyone wanting to kill another human being would likely want to do other things. Like keeping you in a dungeon for months,years and repeatedly assaulting and torturing you? Yeah that's the worse case scenario

Trust your guts when in doubt
 
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lawlietsph

lawlietsph

can we be done here
May 6, 2023
388
I've met one person from here, yes. For me it was really special and i never thought something like this could happen to me.
I took a 11 hour long bus drive to meet him, but i would've done even more just to see him in real life.
Unfortunately I think he is going to be another huge heartbreak for me.
I am unlovable in every way.
 
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burninghill

burninghill

Student
Dec 2, 2025
184
I haven't, but I'd like to! Or at least talk to more people from the UK.

I feel like it's easier to talk to people from England as somebody living there because usually the person has a more comprehensive understanding of what methods are and aren't possible, and I just find comfort in that little bit of closeness.

Anyway, I'm here to talk if anybody would like :)
 
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yesi

Faded
Nov 10, 2025
78
I'm not opposed to meeting people from here irl after i get to know them and feel that i can trust them, it hasn't worked out so far because i haven't really made friends from the UK, all my sasu friends live abroad but i would definitely meet up with some of them if it was more practical.
 
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Al_stargate

Al_stargate

I was once a pretty angel
Mar 4, 2022
820
No but I could have. I gotten to know some people to the extend I could trust them and even chatted with two people from my own city on this site. But I don't really go out and my life is kinda over so no point.
 
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Stargazer100

no nonsense
May 25, 2021
174
i have met at least 4 people through this site. That wasn't planned, but it did come up in conversations and we ended up meeting. some just once, others many times. To my knowledge 3 are alive 1 has given me reasin to believe they killed themselves. I am very happy I met them. I felt understood or wt leat seen just as I am. I never shared my plan, but they rrvealed theirs and they were varying.
 
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