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Adamsnolife

Adamsnolife

Specialist
May 5, 2020
396
I don't know about anyone else but is there people and not just me find ctb when not in a relationship a little easier than someone in a relationship. I'm single and find ctb and not in a relationship easier as there is no attachments with your partner
 
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Graytaichi

Wizard
Feb 14, 2022
606
Yes im single. Its good for ctbers. But when u die u leave pain and sorrow to your mum. Its really a v painful experience. I lost my mum om 17 May and glad i accompany her till her last bit
 
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Adamsnolife

Adamsnolife

Specialist
May 5, 2020
396
I'm not really in touch with my family so it's a bit more easier to die.

Sorry about your mother's passing
Yes im single. Its good for ctbers. But when u die u leave pain and sorrow to your mum. Its really a v painful experience. I lost my mum om 17 May and glad i accompany her till her last bit
 
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Capsaicin78

Capsaicin78

Full time failure
May 4, 2022
238
yup, I think it's easier because u hurt fewer people with ur ctb. Still maybe I'm wrong. Never been in a relationship and certainly never will.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
45,024
In general, I believe that the less people you are leaving behind, the more easier that it is to let go of this life. If someone has no reason to be here and nothing to live for then, I think that it might be easier for them to make peace with their decision. I've never really been able to understand the whole appeal of being in a relationship. I pretty much exist in a different world to many people. The thing that keeps me trapped in this world is the fear of failing the method. Having a peaceful and reliable way to exit would certainly make ctb easier for me.
 
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chloramine

Mage
Apr 18, 2022
504
It makes it easier on multiple fronts. Fewer people to potentially hurt and less support in the first place. People with strong support systems (not just a romantic partner, but good friends) are less likely to get to the point where they go through with cbt
 
CandyCane

CandyCane

Student
Mar 11, 2022
149
I'm going to end up hurting my partner. He doesn't really think I mean it when I talk about suicide, though, I think.
 
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outrider567

Visionary
Apr 5, 2022
2,900
I'm going to end up hurting my partner. He doesn't really think I mean it when I talk about suicide, though, I think.
Yeah, only my step-mother will be left soon and she thinks I'll just 'get better with time' she has no clue despite me constantly mentioning depression and breaking down on the phone with her about my late girlfriend
 
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