sobsob
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- Aug 29, 2024
- 16
hi guys i am getting ready to CTB and i need some logistical help. if anyone can answer any of these questions i would be so so grateful.
- I live in the US, but in a different state from where I was born (and where my parents live). How will it work for the police to ID my body and notify my legal next of kin (I am single/childless/etc)?
- I want to leave 2 notes, 1 for my bf and 1 for my parents. Should I leave physical paper notes, how will those be delivered to my people (particularly out-of-state people)? Or would it be better to send scheduled emails?
- Should I notify police of my death with a scheduled message? I do not know how long it would take for people to notice I was gone, I'm guessing at least 24h.
- I live in an apartment with a roommate, I am planning to do it in my private room with the door locked, late at night when I likely will be undisturbed. Will the landlord enter my room if I "go missing", or will that be police? Is there anything I should do to protect people from the trauma of finding me?