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Written by @Dot, I am just being the voice so more people can understand it.



Okay, so you are having an anxiety episode.
It is worth remembering when suffering anxiety attack, that you are safe, despite your body throwing out symptoms and telling you otherwise.

We have compiled a list of different coping mechanisms and ways to calm down through mind and body - from cognitive strategies to physical methods to different things that might impact/help through your biology. Different things work for different people so hopefully something here covers most types of overwhelm.


Youtube videos:

A short guided meditation to bring you out of your head and grounding back into your body.

Following and learning this technique can be a good coping mechanism.

Breathing and voice exercise for despair and overwhelm starts at 3:30


If you cant watch a youtube video right now:

1.
If panic has been triggered then leave the trigger and find somewhere quiet and safer if possible.
Triggers can be anything from sights, sounds, smells, people, places and social situations.

2. Control your breathing.

There is a good chance that your chest and upper body is frozen up, because your body is protecting itself from threats.
Breathing in through your nose and out through mouth for 5 seconds each.
Breathing in through the nose, helps to stretch out inner muscles that are cramped up through stress, and breathing out through the mouth helps relaxation.


3. Distract and move.

Get out of your head and into your body, an example to this is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
Works better when you are moving and interacting with your environment but it can be done sitting if you are not able to.

1. Find 5 things that you can see and name them out loud
They can be anything interesting or generic.

2. Find 4 things that you can feel
Focus on 4 different sensations and what they feel like - from weight to temperature, to texture etc. It could be a warm blanket, a plushie, some leaves of a plant or cold temperature of door handles. Just allow yourself to feel and experience them all.

3. Focus on 3 things that you can hear
These sounds can be traffic to clock ticking to breeze outside - just be aware of your environment.

4. Find 2 things that you can smell
Find 2 things and focus on what they smell like - from coffee to candle to a highlighter. Take some moments to process and experience these smells.

5. Find 1 thing that you can taste
This could be chocolate or a piece of cheese or any snack - just focus on the flavours.​


4. DBT technique - Water TIPP skill (4 steps)

Try splashing some cold water onto your face to help ground you.

1. If that does not work then get a bowl of cold water - take a breath and put your face into the bowl of water for 20-30 seconds or however long you can. This triggers a mammalian diving reflex which helps to reset your nervous system to calm down.

2. If needed, do intense exercise for a short period to burn off some adrenaline.

3. Return to some paced breathing - slow, deep breaths

4. Progressive muscle relaxation
try mindfully tensing all of your muscle groups at once… and then dropping your weight back into the ground or into your chair. As you travel from head to toe engaging all of your muscle groups simultaneously or one area at a time, pay close attention to the sensations in your body.

5. Connect

Find a trusted person who you can connect with in person or who you can call.

If there are not any people then stroking or cuddling a pet, or alternatively try calling a hotline and talk to someone there.


6. General Self-Care

Check in with yourself in general - have you eaten enough? Had enough water? Are you short on sleep? Setting boundaries and being emotionally honest where possible? Have helpful steps in place to organise general life admin? Even issues like overheating can trigger panic attacks.

A daily body scan can help connect with bodily/emotional feelings and sensations which can help identify when attacks are building up, hence treating them earlier or preventing them altogether.

Daily free online Mon-Fri guided mindfulness sessions are also available online.

Anxiety can sometimes have deeper causes, such as undiagnosed depression. Information on general well-being management can be found by searching online or in the Mental Health Worksheets & Digital Resources Megathread, and information on different therapy methods for treating anxiety and emotional disorders is also available.
 
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That's very thoughFul. Thank you xxx
 
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Thank you so much for this 💜💜💜
 
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This is a great post, it will be very useful for me. Thank you!
 
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Thank you for sharing!
 
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Thank you for this post!
These are interesting tips! I'll try some of them to see if they can work for me! :)
 
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Nice thread. You should have posted it on SD tho. I almost missed it bc I barely Visit the recovery section.
 
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I've attended a mental health college where we learnt hope to cope with anxiety and panic attack, I have both. Had one (anxiety) earlier today.
 
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I have


Written by @Dot, I am just being the voice so more people can understand it.



Okay, so you are having an anxiety episode.
It is worth remembering when suffering anxiety attack, that you are safe, despite your body throwing out symptoms and telling you otherwise.

We have compiled a list of different coping mechanisms and ways to calm down through mind and body - from cognitive strategies to physical methods to different things that might impact/help through your biology. Different things work for different people so hopefully something here covers most types of overwhelm.


Youtube videos:

A short guided meditation to bring you out of your head and grounding back into your body.

Following and learning this technique can be a good coping mechanism.

Breathing and voice exercise for despair and overwhelm starts at 3:30


If you cant watch a youtube video right now:

1.
If panic has been triggered then leave the trigger and find somewhere quiet and safer if possible.
Triggers can be anything from sights, sounds, smells, people, places and social situations.

2. Control your breathing.

There is a good chance that your chest and upper body is frozen up, because your body is protecting itself from threats.
Breathing in through your nose and out through mouth for 5 seconds each.
Breathing in through the nose, helps to stretch out inner muscles that are cramped up through stress, and breathing out through the mouth helps relaxation.


3. Distract and move.

Get out of your head and into your body, an example to this is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
Works better when you are moving and interacting with your environment but it can be done sitting if you are not able to.

1. Find 5 things that you can see and name them out loud
They can be anything interesting or generic.

2. Find 4 things that you can feel
Focus on 4 different sensations and what they feel like - from weight to temperature, to texture etc. It could be a warm blanket, a plushie, some leaves of a plant or cold temperature of door handles. Just allow yourself to feel and experience them all.

3. Focus on 3 things that you can hear
These sounds can be traffic to clock ticking to breeze outside - just be aware of your environment.

4. Find 2 things that you can smell
Find 2 things and focus on what they smell like - from coffee to candle to a highlighter. Take some moments to process and experience these smells.

5. Find 1 thing that you can taste
This could be chocolate or a piece of cheese or any snack - just focus on the flavours.​


4. DBT technique - Water TIPP skill (4 steps)

Try splashing some cold water onto your face to help ground you.

1. If that does not work then get a bowl of cold water - take a breath and put your face into the bowl of water for 20-30 seconds or however long you can. This triggers a mammalian diving reflex which helps to reset your nervous system to calm down.

2. If needed, do intense exercise for a short period to burn off some adrenaline.

3. Return to some paced breathing - slow, deep breaths

4. Progressive muscle relaxation
try mindfully tensing all of your muscle groups at once… and then dropping your weight back into the ground or into your chair. As you travel from head to toe engaging all of your muscle groups simultaneously or one area at a time, pay close attention to the sensations in your body.

5. Connect

Find a trusted person who you can connect with in person or who you can call.

If there are not any people then stroking or cuddling a pet, or alternatively try calling a hotline and talk to someone there.


6. General Self-Care

Check in with yourself in general - have you eaten enough? Had enough water? Are you short on sleep? Setting boundaries and being emotionally honest where possible? Have helpful steps in place to organise general life admin? Even issues like overheating can trigger panic attacks.

A daily body scan can help connect with bodily/emotional feelings and sensations which can help identify when attacks are building up, hence treating them earlier or preventing them altogether.

Daily free online Mon-Fri guided mindfulness sessions are also available online.

Anxiety can sometimes have deeper causes, such as undiagnosed depression. Information on general well-being management can be found by searching online or in the Mental Health Worksheets & Digital Resources Megathread, and information on different therapy methods for treating anxiety and emotional disorders is also available.​

I have insane anxiety, I was in class and this one time I was afraid that the teacher would be calling my name to get up and solve an exercise at the white board.

My fingers and palms were so sweaty to the point where sweat was dropping.

I avoid interactions in general because I can't even look in the eyes of a person.
 
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WantingOut2

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Feb 10, 2024
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Nice thread. You should have posted it on SD tho. I almost missed it bc I barely Visit the recovery section.
This is in the wrong thread just as I am right now. It's very good to have but we're all struggling.
 
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Jun 20, 2024
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Written by @Dot, I am just being the voice so more people can understand it.



Okay, so you are having an anxiety episode.
It is worth remembering when suffering anxiety attack, that you are safe, despite your body throwing out symptoms and telling you otherwise.

We have compiled a list of different coping mechanisms and ways to calm down through mind and body - from cognitive strategies to physical methods to different things that might impact/help through your biology. Different things work for different people so hopefully something here covers most types of overwhelm.


Youtube videos:

A short guided meditation to bring you out of your head and grounding back into your body.

Following and learning this technique can be a good coping mechanism.

Breathing and voice exercise for despair and overwhelm starts at 3:30


If you cant watch a youtube video right now:

1.
If panic has been triggered then leave the trigger and find somewhere quiet and safer if possible.
Triggers can be anything from sights, sounds, smells, people, places and social situations.

2. Control your breathing.

There is a good chance that your chest and upper body is frozen up, because your body is protecting itself from threats.
Breathing in through your nose and out through mouth for 5 seconds each.
Breathing in through the nose, helps to stretch out inner muscles that are cramped up through stress, and breathing out through the mouth helps relaxation.


3. Distract and move.

Get out of your head and into your body, an example to this is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
Works better when you are moving and interacting with your environment but it can be done sitting if you are not able to.

1. Find 5 things that you can see and name them out loud
They can be anything interesting or generic.

2. Find 4 things that you can feel
Focus on 4 different sensations and what they feel like - from weight to temperature, to texture etc. It could be a warm blanket, a plushie, some leaves of a plant or cold temperature of door handles. Just allow yourself to feel and experience them all.

3. Focus on 3 things that you can hear
These sounds can be traffic to clock ticking to breeze outside - just be aware of your environment.

4. Find 2 things that you can smell
Find 2 things and focus on what they smell like - from coffee to candle to a highlighter. Take some moments to process and experience these smells.

5. Find 1 thing that you can taste
This could be chocolate or a piece of cheese or any snack - just focus on the flavours.​


4. DBT technique - Water TIPP skill (4 steps)

Try splashing some cold water onto your face to help ground you.

1. If that does not work then get a bowl of cold water - take a breath and put your face into the bowl of water for 20-30 seconds or however long you can. This triggers a mammalian diving reflex which helps to reset your nervous system to calm down.

2. If needed, do intense exercise for a short period to burn off some adrenaline.

3. Return to some paced breathing - slow, deep breaths

4. Progressive muscle relaxation
try mindfully tensing all of your muscle groups at once… and then dropping your weight back into the ground or into your chair. As you travel from head to toe engaging all of your muscle groups simultaneously or one area at a time, pay close attention to the sensations in your body.

5. Connect

Find a trusted person who you can connect with in person or who you can call.

If there are not any people then stroking or cuddling a pet, or alternatively try calling a hotline and talk to someone there.


6. General Self-Care

Check in with yourself in general - have you eaten enough? Had enough water? Are you short on sleep? Setting boundaries and being emotionally honest where possible? Have helpful steps in place to organise general life admin? Even issues like overheating can trigger panic attacks.

A daily body scan can help connect with bodily/emotional feelings and sensations which can help identify when attacks are building up, hence treating them earlier or preventing them altogether.

Daily free online Mon-Fri guided mindfulness sessions are also available online.

Anxiety can sometimes have deeper causes, such as undiagnosed depression. Information on general well-being management can be found by searching online or in the Mental Health Worksheets & Digital Resources Megathread, and information on different therapy methods for treating anxiety and emotional disorders is also available.

As someone with serious panic attack episodes, im going to try this. Thanks to @Dot And to you❤️
 
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this is interesting, with the exception of 2,3,4,5 meia 7, 8..

Is this serious? The person is anxious and has to do this, 5 of that, 4 of that... 3 of I don't know what else... seriously, someone needs to review this. Sorry, but that's just my opinion.
 
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this is interesting, with the exception of 2,3,4,5 meia 7, 8..

Is this serious? The person is anxious and has to do this, 5 of that, 4 of that... 3 of I don't know what else... seriously, someone needs to review this. Sorry, but that's just my opinion.

Diffrnt knds of dstractns wrk fr diffrnt ppl

Tht = Y sme r cognitve - sme r jst breathng & sme r othr bdy xrcises & sme r cld watr fr divng reflx etc

Rsourcs on thred covr th/ rnge s/ hpeflly sme1 wll fnd smethng whch wrks fr thm
 
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Written by @Dot, I am just being the voice so more people can understand it.



Okay, so you are having an anxiety episode.
It is worth remembering when suffering anxiety attack, that you are safe, despite your body throwing out symptoms and telling you otherwise.

We have compiled a list of different coping mechanisms and ways to calm down through mind and body - from cognitive strategies to physical methods to different things that might impact/help through your biology. Different things work for different people so hopefully something here covers most types of overwhelm.


Youtube videos:

A short guided meditation to bring you out of your head and grounding back into your body.

Following and learning this technique can be a good coping mechanism.

Breathing and voice exercise for despair and overwhelm starts at 3:30


If you cant watch a youtube video right now:

1.
If panic has been triggered then leave the trigger and find somewhere quiet and safer if possible.
Triggers can be anything from sights, sounds, smells, people, places and social situations.

2. Control your breathing.

There is a good chance that your chest and upper body is frozen up, because your body is protecting itself from threats.
Breathing in through your nose and out through mouth for 5 seconds each.
Breathing in through the nose, helps to stretch out inner muscles that are cramped up through stress, and breathing out through the mouth helps relaxation.


3. Distract and move.

Get out of your head and into your body, an example to this is the 5-4-3-2-1 technique.
Works better when you are moving and interacting with your environment but it can be done sitting if you are not able to.

1. Find 5 things that you can see and name them out loud
They can be anything interesting or generic.

2. Find 4 things that you can feel
Focus on 4 different sensations and what they feel like - from weight to temperature, to texture etc. It could be a warm blanket, a plushie, some leaves of a plant or cold temperature of door handles. Just allow yourself to feel and experience them all.

3. Focus on 3 things that you can hear
These sounds can be traffic to clock ticking to breeze outside - just be aware of your environment.

4. Find 2 things that you can smell
Find 2 things and focus on what they smell like - from coffee to candle to a highlighter. Take some moments to process and experience these smells.

5. Find 1 thing that you can taste
This could be chocolate or a piece of cheese or any snack - just focus on the flavours.​


4. DBT technique - Water TIPP skill (4 steps)

Try splashing some cold water onto your face to help ground you.

1. If that does not work then get a bowl of cold water - take a breath and put your face into the bowl of water for 20-30 seconds or however long you can. This triggers a mammalian diving reflex which helps to reset your nervous system to calm down.

2. If needed, do intense exercise for a short period to burn off some adrenaline.

3. Return to some paced breathing - slow, deep breaths

4. Progressive muscle relaxation
try mindfully tensing all of your muscle groups at once… and then dropping your weight back into the ground or into your chair. As you travel from head to toe engaging all of your muscle groups simultaneously or one area at a time, pay close attention to the sensations in your body.

5. Connect

Find a trusted person who you can connect with in person or who you can call.

If there are not any people then stroking or cuddling a pet, or alternatively try calling a hotline and talk to someone there.


6. General Self-Care

Check in with yourself in general - have you eaten enough? Had enough water? Are you short on sleep? Setting boundaries and being emotionally honest where possible? Have helpful steps in place to organise general life admin? Even issues like overheating can trigger panic attacks.

A daily body scan can help connect with bodily/emotional feelings and sensations which can help identify when attacks are building up, hence treating them earlier or preventing them altogether.

Daily free online Mon-Fri guided mindfulness sessions are also available online.

Anxiety can sometimes have deeper causes, such as undiagnosed depression. Information on general well-being management can be found by searching online or in the Mental Health Worksheets & Digital Resources Megathread, and information on different therapy methods for treating anxiety and emotional disorders is also available.

These things only send me further into my rabbit hole because trying to focus on something else just makes me feel like i cant do it. Cold water is extremely overwhemling for me and it really just doesnt do anything because it's my brain. Exercise makes me breathless, taste blood, and i start panicking more. Trusted people give me all the advice in this thread. Genuinely just thinking I wasnt meant for life In the first place.
 
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These things only send me further into my rabbit hole because trying to focus on something else just makes me feel like i cant do it. Cold water is extremely overwhemling for me and it really just doesnt do anything because it's my brain. Exercise makes me breathless, taste blood, and i start panicking more. Trusted people give me all the advice in this thread. Genuinely just thinking I wasnt meant for life In the first place.

Snds as tho ur systm = cmpltly ovrwhelmd & tht puttng mre strain on bdy jst incrses th/ adrenlne & ovrwhelm

Slf hve herd abt sme othr methds lke usng flavrs 2 dstract ur senss



Also sme1 in a supprt hme tht slf ws in usd 2 stare @ lva-lmp whch wld clm thm dwn

Smethng els tht usd 2 hlp slf ws usng essentl oils - findng an oil tht mde slf fl calmr durng norml tmes & spred on wrst = smell fr groundng durng panc tmes as = ws givng clm associatn

Thre = sectn in Therpy Methds thred whch tlks abt Somatc approachs whch hlp 2 gradully train ur systm in sfety -- also practicng groundng xerciss whn u r alrdy calm hlps 2 train ur brn & systm s/ = easr 2 connct on2 thse feelngs durng panc epsdes

Hpe sme of tht info hlps a bt
 
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Snds as tho ur systm = cmpltly ovrwhelmd & tht puttng mre strain on bdy jst incrses th/ adrenlne & ovrwhelm

Slf hve herd abt sme othr methds lke usng flavrs 2 dstract ur senss



Also sme1 in a supprt hme tht slf ws in usd 2 stare @ lva-lmp whch wld clm thm dwn

Smethng els tht usd 2 hlp slf ws usng essentl oils - findng an oil tht mde slf fl calmr durng norml tmes & spred on wrst = smell fr groundng durng panc tmes as = ws givng clm associatn

Thre = sectn in Therpy Methds thred whch tlks abt Somatc approachs whch hlp 2 gradully train ur systm in sfety -- also practicng groundng xerciss whn u r alrdy calm hlps 2 train ur brn & systm s/ = easr 2 connct on2 thse feelngs durng panc epsdes

Hpe sme of tht info hlps a bt


'translated'

Sounds as though your system is completely overwhelmed, and that putting more strain on body just increases the adrenaline and overwhelm.

I have heard about other methods, like using flavours to distract your senses.

--

Also someone in a support home that I used was in used to stare at a lava-lamp, which would calm them down.

Something else that used to help me was using essential oils - finding an oil that made me feel calmer during normal times, and spreading its smell on my wrist for grounding during panic times, as it was giving a calm association.

There is section in Therapy Methods thread which talks about somatic approaches, which help to gradually train your system in safety. Also practicing grounding exercises when you are already calm, helps to train your brain and system so it's easier to connect onto these feelings during panic episodes.

Hope some of that info helps a bit.
 
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Thank you for all these resources. I find box breathing to be a very useful technique.
 
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