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jamie_

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May 21, 2022
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a bus would suggest a communal group of people. but the reality is we die alone and very few people give a shit. catching the lonely walk would be better. i'm drunk posting right now but it still makes sense
 
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Lost Magic

Lost Magic

Illuminated
May 5, 2020
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Depends. It might be an empty bus. I actually prefer train journeys tbh
 
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Zegers

Zegers

Enlightened
Dec 15, 2021
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It is a private chauffeur-driven bus
 
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Hollowillow

Hollowillow

The only place that allows negative feelings.
Aug 7, 2022
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a bus would suggest a communal group of people. but the reality is we die alone and very few people give a shit. catching the lonely walk would be better. i'm drunk posting right now but it still makes sense
Yes, but it sounds cuter than Catching Cancer or Catching Aids.

I imagine the grim reaper as the driver with a bus full of souls.
 
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jamie_

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May 21, 2022
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Yes, but it sounds cuter than Catching Cancer or Catching Aids.

I imagine the grim reaper as the driver with a bus full of souls.
you make a good point friend
 
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Winterreise

Experienced
Jun 27, 2022
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Returning the ticket.
Throw in the towel
 
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Sarros

Student
Sep 2, 2021
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I always pictured it to be like, throwing yourself in front of the bus, not as strictly the literal method, but to 'catch' the bus in that way, so to speak.
 
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Lonerzepam

Lonerzepam

O'lord! I Have My Doubts
Sep 2, 2022
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It could also mean closing the book
 
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Euthanza

Euthanza

Self Righteous Suicide
Jun 9, 2022
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It's synonymous with catch the dream bus
 
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nosurpries

nosurpries

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Jul 3, 2022
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i disagree. i think it's a meaningful sentiment, "getting my ticket" aka getting method in order, "waiting on my bus" aka waiting for the right time. anf "catching the bus" the action itself. joining the others on the bus into whatever is beyond, other lost hopeless souls. i like the "catch the bus" euphemism, it feels hopeful to me.
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
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I do like referring to suicide as catching the bus, but I understand what you mean. Suicide can certainly be very lonely. As humans we are all alone as people can never fully understand what we go through and experience life the same way. We only exist just to die and be forgotten about anyway. I do think that most people only care about what directly affects themselves.
 
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brokensea

brokensea

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Aug 4, 2022
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For me it means catching a bus that can take you on a route out of life and into the next journey wherever that is even if it's non existence.
 
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nopride86

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Mar 16, 2022
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I know it means "catching the bus" but when I read CTB my mind goes to "crossing the bridge". All the same sentiment really. But I never really thought about how a bus is usually full of people….good observation I suppose.
 
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ManicPanic2018

Night of the final day
Sep 11, 2022
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I know it means "catching the bus" but when I read CTB my mind goes to "crossing the bridge". All the same sentiment really. But I never really thought about how a bus is usually full of people….good observation I suppose.

My mind does this too? I prefer crossing the bridge. Though it does remind me a bit too much of "Crossing the rainbow bridge" as if I'm a fucking Golden Retriever.
 
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emgrl

emgrl

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Aug 6, 2022
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I once read in an old post here, someone referred to it as "ceasing to breathe".
 
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Hope:-)

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Jul 3, 2022
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Saying suicide too many times does get a bit depressing though.
 
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LaVieEnRose

LaVieEnRose

Pray for my release
Jul 23, 2022
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I like that it's been a commonly used euphemism for several decades. A bit of cultural heritage, so to speak. "bus stop" is a good metaphor for the state of contemplating suicide.
 
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Muach

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Jan 28, 2022
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a bus would suggest a communal group of people. but the reality is we die alone and very few people give a shit. catching the lonely walk would be better. i'm drunk posting right now but it still
So am i babe. Drunk!!! The least we deserve.
 
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Jimblue

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Sep 10, 2022
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I like "catch a bus" means new journey.
 
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betternever2havbeen

Enlightened
Jun 19, 2022
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I had never heard the term before until I found this place, even after being suicidal for years. It sounded weird to use the term at first but I soon got used to it and agree it sounds better than most alternatives...
 
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Funeralprincess

Death never turned on me
May 8, 2022
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a bus would suggest a communal group of people. but the reality is we die alone and very few people give a shit. catching the lonely walk would be better. i'm drunk posting right now but it still makes sense
I actually just call it going home because to me, death is home
 
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allblackallwhite

allblackallwhite

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Sep 4, 2022
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None of us knows what happens when we finally catch it. We're all here at the bus stop together. Nobody is alone if they don't want to be.
 
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locked*n*loaded

locked*n*loaded

Archangel
Apr 15, 2022
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I like Ascending To Peace (ATP) much better.
 
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