Help Can someone tell me that my family and friends will be ok? Please!

[Abandoned Phantom]

I'm catching the bus in the next few days. It's going to come so far out of left field. It's going to hurt them immensely! Everyone! My mom, my dad, my sister, my extended family, my 2 best friends. But I can't live like this anymore. They'll be ok right? Someone please! Tell me they'll be ok. I know it's going to hurt. But they'll be ok, right? The pain will eventually stop... right?
Perhaps going to the suicide bereavement subreddit was not the greatest idea I've had. They're the only reason I'm still here. Cause I know how much it's going to hurt.

 

[U. A.]

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[Tarantula]

If they truly do care about you then they probably wont be okay. It's one of the worst losses you can go through. I've joined suicide bereavement communities and I have friends that have experienced suicide grief and almost every single person that I've spoken to that has experienced suicide bereveament has told me that it's not something that you can truly get over. It changes you for the rest of your life. They can learn to live with the pain but it's not easy. I'm not saying this to guilttrip you, I'm saying this because you deserve to have an honest answer. Most of the people that tell you that people will simply just get over it within a few months are full of shit and have probably never experienced suicide grief before. The chances of them truly being okay are very low, anyone can lie about being okay and hide their pain from others so you truly never know.