Kramer
Nervous wreck
- Oct 27, 2020
- 1,398
I feel it's been a kind of barrier for me. Two women who were older than me wrote me off after they asked me what I do.
They won't see it if they find you're a neetYes, not a problem if you have a big willy
I have my own money. It's not a lot but I manage. I don't need anyone to support me.Well you need to find the right person that's okay with being someone who's not employed because then they will have to support 2 ppl. But theres people like that out there so yes but it's not gonna be easy. It's not easy to find the right person anyway
Oh well then why would it matter? If you have money while being a neet then that's my dream life lol.They won't see it if they find you're a neet
I have my own money. It's not a lot but I manage. I don't need anyone to support me.
Dating or going out often would use up all my money really quickOh well then why would it matter? If you have money while being a neet then that's my dream life lol.
You don't always have to buy stuff and spend money when you go out thoDating or going out often would use up all my money really quick
GasYou don't always have to buy stuff and spend money when you go out tho
Because your social status is a big thing for some.Oh well then why would it matter? If you have money while being a neet then that's my dream life lol.
A friend said I should just look for sex given my situation. I don't know how to approach women in that way.Depends what they are looking for. If they want a long term partner they will likely care what you do do for a living. If they just want a hook up then they likely won't care.
I figured that but I can't tell without being too blunt what women are looking for. Most seem to want a relationship when I show interestRelationships would be hard because you can't lie about anything but I'm sure you could have sex if you just make up some backstory about having a job. Seems kind-of manipulative though and if you're gonna do it I would make sure the other person only wants sex too and not something more.
How do they discover your issues?I wouldn't call myself attractive, but I did it. I only seem to attract people who find my attachment issues/people pleaser complex useful and/or genuinely enjoy causing me suffering, though. Narccists love preying upon people like us. Not healthy.
Normally I would say bars, but covid has messed that up. Maybe dating apps if you're honest about desires and intentions?A friend said I should just look for sex given my situation. I don't know how to approach women in that way.
I just joined a new one. I used to do better on them a few years ago. Nothing is different. I look the sameNormally I would say bars, but covid has messed that up. Maybe dating apps if you're honest about desires and intentions?
Covid might make it harder. I wouldn't hook up for intimate encounters during a pandemic.I just joined a new one. I used to do better on them a few years ago. Nothing is different. I look the same
Some seem to genuinely not seek it out on purpose but pick up on "vulnerable" social cues subconsciously. The worst ones have done it a lot of times before and know exactly what they're looking for.How do they discover your issues?
I mean if the person can support themselves and won't constantly talk about that they're neet and stuff then I'd be with a neet person. It depends on personality and if you have similarities that you can talk about and stuffOnly group of people that would benefit a NEET is a sugarmomma. But those are rare.
How many bad ones did you get involved with? I tend to go for women who are shy and seem nice and sweet.Some seem to genuinely not seek it out on purpose but pick up on "vulnerable" social cues subconsciously. The worst ones have done it a lot of times before and know exactly what they're looking for.
I'm not saying it's impossible to have a healthy relationship in this kind of situation, but it seems very difficult. Especially if you're the kind of person who is looking for a relationship to try to improve your mental state. (Understandable, I did it myself, but a very bad idea.) Personally I don't think I'll try again.
There's sites for sugar mommies and daddies thoid do it if it wasn't for exchange of sexual favorsOnly group of people that would benefit a NEET is a sugarmomma. But those are rare.
I support myself through disability. I've had two nurses ask me what I do at doctor visits. When I've told them, they just walked away and wouldn't look at me :/I mean if the person can support themselves and won't constantly talk about that they're neet and stuff then I'd be with a neet person. It depends on personality and if you have similarities that you can talk about and stuff
Did they answer at least? They should answer but you can't expect much from ppl who are working and doing their job. It's not a time to date pplI support myself through disability. I've had two nurses ask me what I do at doctor visits. When I've told them, they just walked away and wouldn't look at me :/