Bullying and harassment

[walkingdead2023]

Even here? Wtf is going on with people! Please be respectful none of you own this site. I'm reading rude comments all over! Who is using their real name here? No body that mean we all have to be careful from you all right! Stop people come here depressed they leave face book, instagram, TikTok, etc to spend non judgmental time here to feel respected people here because they"want to die" you see how sad saying this!! Please let's practice respect here. Thank you . .

 

[useless_friend]

Even here? Wtf is going on with people! Please be respectful none of you own this site. I'm reading rude comments all over! Who is using their real name here? No body that mean we all have to be careful from you all right! Stop people come here depressed they leave face book, instagram, TikTok, etc to spend non judgmental time here to feel respected people here because they"want to die" you see how sad saying this!! Please let's practice respect here. Thank you . .

Thank you for those wise words - I suppose that a lot of us lash out in pain, but even so this is our last safe space. Thanks for the reminder!

 

[walkingdead2023]

Thank you for those wise words - I suppose that a lot of us lash out in pain, but even so this is our last safe space. Thanks for the reminder!

We run away from rude people none deserve to be disrespected! You see why I hate life? You're welcome, friend!

 

[Seered Doom]

Have you reported any of the rude comments? I suggest that action and yeah, people do need to be at least more considerate before jumping the fucking gun on certain posts. Read them over because there may be more nuance to them, yknow?

 

[walkingdead2023]

Have you reported any of the rude comments? I suggest that action and yeah, people do need to be at least more considerate before jumping the fucking gun on certain posts. Read them over because there may be more nuance to them, yknow?

I did twice! I agree with you and think some users just because they being here for years think they own this site and they are real but everyone else is fake!

 

[Seered Doom]

Seniority creating false superiority? I think it depends on the user because most of them are very good and the small percentage that aren't probably have more going on and would apologize if that's the case. If they don't, then you know who the reactionaries are. The ignore button is also your friend in some of those circumstances as a way to filter out certain people you see doing this to you.

 

[walkingdead2023]

Seniority creating false superiority? I think it depends on the user because most of them are very good and the small percentage that aren't probably have more going on and would apologize if that's the case. If they don't, then you know who the reactionaries are. The ignore button is also your friend in some of those circumstances as a way to filter out certain people you see doing this to you.

Thank you so much! Appreciate you. Yea I did block two so far lol

 

[Seered Doom]

Thank you so much! Appreciate you. Yea I did block two so far lol

Good steps to take. The mods on the site are actually very helpful if you want to talk to them directly. They might be able to help out too.

 

[Abyssal]

I'm curious what this refers to. I try not to be too unkind but I admit that I'm not perfect at that. However I have yet to see any true bullying outside of passive aggressive threads about how there's too many pro lifers on here or whatever, but I just block those people if it's too much.

 

[walkingdead2023]

Good steps to take. The mods on the site are actually very helpful if you want to talk to them directly. They might be able to help out too.

I didn't know! Thank you so much for your support

I'm curious what this refers to. I try not to be too unkind but I admit that I'm not perfect at that. However I have yet to see any true bullying outside of passive aggressive threads about how there's too many pro lifers on here or whatever, but I just block those people if it's too much.

Thank you I'm using the block option it's easier…two comments were deleted already which I'm grateful to the customer service!

 

[trashhologram]

Some people are just assholes. I personally tend to get mean sometimes when I'm already feeling like shit and someone provokes me. I don't want to be that way but when I feel like shit it's very hard for me to control myself. I think many people feel this way too. But that doesn't excuse being a dick.

 

[walkingdead2023]

Some people are just assholes. I personally tend to get mean sometimes when I'm already feeling like shit and someone provokes me. I don't want to be that way but when I feel like shit it's very hard for me to control myself. I think many people feel this way too. But that doesn't excuse being a dick.

You're right because people here already tired and looking for some type of validity! I get it we all have our bad moments.. thank you so much for sharing it make more sense now..

 

[trashhologram]

You're right because people here already tired and looking for some type of validity! I get it we all have our bad moments.. thank you so much for sharing it make more sense now..

No problem. I think it's important to remember that people who bully others usually do that to feel better about themselves. They usually have a very low self esteem so directing the hate to someone else makes them feel more powerful. Still no excuse to bully anyone, words do hurt like hell.

 

[walkingdead2023]

No problem. I think it's important to remember that people who bully others usually do that to feel better about themselves. They usually have a very low self esteem so directing the hate to someone else makes them feel more powerful. Still no excuse to bully anyone, words do hurt like hell.

Yes! Did you hear about this boy he's only 15 killed himself on January 4th because his mom told him " I wish you was never born" he went out and died few minutes after! It's all over TikTok

 

[trashhologram]

Yes! Did you hear about this boy he's only 15 killed himself on January 4th because his mom told him " I wish you was never born" he went out and died few minutes after! It's all over TikTok

No, I haven't heard of that. I haven't used TikTok in ages. That's horrible, 15 is very young! I wonder if the mom feels any remorse...

 

[walkingdead2023]

Definitely haven't seen much of that on here, certainly not enough to count as bullying or harassment. We all make the odd mistakes, I've deleted one post that was made on impulse and apologised for another where my post was misinterpreted.

Thank you for deleting the post you thought it was made on impulse! Like you said we all do mistakes but we also have to remember people had enough and it's not fair to "add on"

 

[Seered Doom]

When others have to bring other people down to fulfill a complex they have, I feel nothing but pity for them on the fact they're so low mentally that they have to harass others just so they're not alone in their own misery. We're all suicidally depressed here, so there's no reason that we need to drag each other further down. I'm not a saint in this regard either, I'm prone to lashing out and being a dick multiple times over. The thing I want to see changed is normalizing accountability by owning up to being an ass and saying "I'm sorry for doing this, I'll be more mindful" instead of just either doubling down or running away from the one they've hurt when they're confronted. I get it, hearing someone was hurt sucks, but look past the emotion and see what they're actually saying. Just read the actual words. Take some time to recover from the emotion if needed, and actually read what's being said. If they've got a point in their hurt, just tell them you realize you fucked up and apologize. I never realized saying sorry was difficult to many, but damn. This post got me remembering a few places that existed.

 

[DeadHead]

I had to stay away from here for a while after someone who clearly has very little experience of life (and actually having to work for a living ) made an offensive comment about my inoperable brain tumour. This was the last place I expected such pig ignorance. Of course I'm grateful for the Ignore function, but the damage is done. In the 13 years that I've lived with worsening, crippling and invasive symptoms, been fucked over the the corrupt medical system, had to keep working no matter how shit I feel, been left to deal with everything alone while absolutely terrified, this was by far the most offensive thing anyone has said to me. I think we need to remember there are sadistic trolls here too. Although thankfully the majority of users are compassionate.

 

[walkingdead2023]

When others have to bring other people down to fulfill a complex they have, I feel nothing but pity for them on the fact they're so low mentally that they have to harass others just so they're not alone in their own misery. We're all suicidally depressed here, so there's no reason that we need to drag each other further down. I'm not a saint in this regard either, I'm prone to lashing out and being a dick multiple times over. The thing I want to see changed is normalizing accountability by owning up to being an ass and saying "I'm sorry for doing this, I'll be more mindful" instead of just either doubling down or running away from the one they've hurt when they're confronted. I get it, hearing someone was hurt sucks, but look past the emotion and see what they're actually saying. Just read the actual words. Take some time to recover from the emotion if needed, and actually read what's being said. If they've got a point in their hurt, just tell them you realize you fucked up and apologize. I never realized saying sorry was difficult to many, but damn. This post got me remembering a few places that existed.

Well said! Thanks

I had to stay away from here for a while after someone who clearly has very little experience of life (and actually having to work for a living ) made an offensive comment about my inoperable brain tumour. This was the last place I expected such pig ignorance. Of course I'm grateful for the Ignore function, but the damage is done. In the 13 years that I've lived with worsening, crippling and invasive symptoms, been fucked over the the corrupt medical system, had to keep working no matter how shit I feel, been left to deal with everything alone while absolutely terrified, this was by far the most offensive thing anyone has said to me. I think we need to remember there are sadistic trolls here too. Although thankfully the majority of users are compassionate.

Thank you so much for sharing! Hopefully this post will make a difference we are not here to tolerate offensive comments! I'm glad they have the "ignore/block" option as well! Please I'm here for you if you ever need to talk

No, I haven't heard of that. I haven't used TikTok in ages. That's horrible, 15 is very young! I wonder if the mom feels any remorse...

I heard she's not doing good as his last message to his mom was "you will regret" I guess the bad words she told him! Very sad

 

[huzzahhue56]

Seniority creating false superiority? I think it depends on the user because most of them are very good and the small percentage that aren't probably have more going on and would apologize if that's the case. If they don't, then you know who the reactionaries are. The ignore button is also your friend in some of those circumstances as a way to filter out certain people you see doing this to you.

I love your pfp, suicidal boy is a very goated manhwa