Broken heart and suicide

[Funeralprincess]

Having my method has really helped ease my anxiety. I also will keep you guys updated on how things go when I CTB in a few months after I've taken care of helping my brother, but while I'm here I still go to my therapy group, and I wanted to say for anyone who is killing themselves over heartbreak and another person, please know that that is valid. A lot of people say "time heals" when it comes to that, but that's not always true in fact in a lot of cases, it isn't. Being in the therapy group I am in, I've come to realize how common it actually is to never ever get over someone you deeply love. There are so many people who end up settling for what's out there because of the love they lost, or they just stay all alone. It's crazy how many people are in my group that are twice my age still in love with an ex… don't let people tell you that you're irrational for feeling this way, or that time will magically heal it. If they are the love of your life, time isn't going to heal it, but time will make it a whole lot worse and sometimes you aren't strong enough to endure that type of pain. This group hasn't helped me in the sense of healing, but it has reassured me that this is more common than a lot of people realize and our society refuses to acknowledge that this is a common thing, which bothers me. It helps to know I'm not alone because most don't get it because they haven't been in love yet… I just wanted to share this because I see such disagreement in someone
Choosing to off themselves because of another person, but it's very valid

 

[FuneralCry]

I think that people shouldn't judge others reasons for suicide as after all we all experience life differently and have different limits as to what we can endure. Suicide doesn't even need a reason in the first place anyway, it's a personal decision when to leave. I understand why you would be relieved at having a ctb method. Best wishes.

 

[Funeralprincess]

I think that people shouldn't judge others reasons for suicide as after all we all experience life differently and have different limits as to what we can endure. Suicide doesn't even need a reason in the first place anyway, it's a personal decision when to leave. I understand why you would be relieved at having a ctb method. Best wishes.

Thank you. I hope you can eventually get your method one day

 

[outrider567]

Having my method has really helped ease my anxiety. I also will keep you guys updated on how things go when I CTB in a few months after I've taken care of helping my brother, but while I'm here I still go to my therapy group, and I wanted to say for anyone who is killing themselves over heartbreak and another person, please know that that is valid. A lot of people say "time heals" when it comes to that, but that's not always true in fact in a lot of cases, it isn't. Being in the therapy group I am in, I've come to realize how common it actually is to never ever get over someone you deeply love. There are so many people who end up settling for what's out there because of the love they lost, or they just stay all alone. It's crazy how many people are in my group that are twice my age still in love with an ex… don't let people tell you that you're irrational for feeling this way, or that time will magically heal it. If they are the love of your life, time isn't going to heal it, but time will make it a whole lot worse and sometimes you aren't strong enough to endure that type of pain. This group hasn't helped me in the sense of healing, but it has reassured me that this is more common than a lot of people realize and our society refuses to acknowledge that this is a common thing, which bothers me. It helps to know I'm not alone because most don't get it because they haven't been in love yet… I just wanted to share this because I see such disagreement in someone
Choosing to off themselves because of another person, but it's very valid

Couldn't say it better myself, its heartbreak unlimited--Losing her is still killing me a little each day, and its been going on for 7 long months now--There is no healing thru time, there is only continuing misery, with a big empty hole in my life, a life that seems to get more and more pointless as the days drag on

 

[Funeralprincess]

Couldn't say it better myself, its heartbreak unlimited--Losing her is still killing me a little each day, and its been going on for 7 long months now--There is no healing thru time, there is only continuing misery, with a big empty hole in my life, a life that seems to get more and more pointless as the days drag on

Yeah I'm going on year four. He's happier with someone else but made me believe he loved me. Ive lost all light and hope. It's not gotten better at allll

 

[outrider567]

Yeah I'm going on year four. He's happier with someone else but made me believe he loved me. Ive lost all light and hope. It's not gotten better at allll

She died Jan 24th, still waiting for her pink granite tombstone to get here, she was so crazy about life, appreciated it so much, my own optimism about life totally disappeared after her death

 

[Funeralprincess]

She died Jan 24th, still waiting for her pink granite tombstone to get here, she was so crazy about life, appreciated it so much, my own optimism about life totally disappeared after her death

That's horrible. I am so sorry you've lost your lover

 

[Finding Sirius]

He passed away September 2021. I tried to keep going, but all I have come to realize is that I don't want to live in a world where he doesn't exist. People keep disappointing me, he was the only one who made life bearable.

 

[Funeralprincess]

He passed away September 2021. I tried to keep going, but all I have come to realize is that I don't want to live in a world where he doesn't exist. People keep disappointing me, he was the only one who made life bearable.

I totally understand that. My true love made life bearable too and I know for a fact even if we did work out if he died, I'd be in your same position. I miss him and I'm sorry youre going through this