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Mint Floss

Mint Floss

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Dec 11, 2025
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I know this is a stupid thing to get upset over, but my 21st birthday is coming up. I was really hoping to somehow find new people that I could connect to to invite but I've succinctly run out of time. I have a few friends but it's very clear that they do not consider me someone as a close friend at all, and most of them canceled on me last year. I'm depressed. I'm wasting my life and I can't even do it in company. I don't know what to do...
 
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_wishforwings

_wishforwings

Forever is such an unpleasant word.
Feb 4, 2026
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I am also turning 21 in a few weeks (Actually more like a month) but I also will not have anyone to spend it with, so I understand the feeling. Wish I knew of some solid advice to give you but just know you're not alone stranger🫂. I hope it still goes well regardless.
 
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Mint Floss

Mint Floss

Member
Dec 11, 2025
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I am also turning 21 in a few weeks (Actually more like a month) but I also will not have anyone to spend it with, so I understand the feeling. Wish I knew of some solid advice to give you but just know you're not alone stranger🫂. I hope it still goes well regardless.
I hope it goes well for you too!
 
DeathWish3301

DeathWish3301

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May 15, 2024
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I know this is a stupid thing to get upset over, but my 21st birthday is coming up. I was really hoping to somehow find new people that I could connect to to invite but I've succinctly run out of time. I have a few friends but it's very clear that they do not consider me someone as a close friend at all, and most of them canceled on me last year. I'm depressed. I'm wasting my life and I can't even do it in company. I don't know what to do...

It's not stupid. Twenty one is one of those "landmark" ages. If it's of any consolation, no one that I invited showed up to my 21st. I spent it drinking alone in my room.

People are selfish and don't care, it's not you.
 
FadingSnowFake

FadingSnowFake

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Nov 25, 2024
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I'm sorry you feel this way. I've never cared much about birthdays, but understand you'd want to do something for your 21st. I'm usually okay knowing I can hang out here on "special" days. I hope you will find a way to not feel so blue on your special day. Happy birthday in advance ✨
 

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