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The Morningstar

The Morningstar

Be absolute. Be yourself, until you bleed.
May 4, 2025
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very true, even here in my region, there is a requirements to look attractive to even be a cashier, sounds ridiculous but its true . indonesia
Someone showed me an ad for a Burger Stand cashier job in the Philippines. "Must be 25 or younger, female, and beautiful."

Then they showed me a hundred more just like it. Disgusting.
 
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wham311

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Mar 1, 2025
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All this because you stopped taking trt? I'd take it again!
Too embarrassed to even go in the gym, no clothes for it, requires gaining a lot of muscle just to sit and with that comes a lot of fat, or losing the weight first which would decimate muscle even more, and my diet is terrible, I never learned to cook bc I'm a loser and don't know how to keep calories low without it costing a lot of money.
We are ALL beautiful, that is what makes the universe so wonderous.

Walter
This isn't true, some of us have terrible personalities too.
It is fucking crazy that every time you look at someone you make their day worse and vice versa, I am so not used to this
 
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whywere

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Jun 26, 2020
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Too embarrassed to even go in the gym, no clothes for it, requires gaining a lot of muscle just to sit and with that comes a lot of fat, or losing the weight first which would decimate muscle even more, and my diet is terrible, I never learned to cook bc I'm a loser and don't know how to keep calories low without it costing a lot of money.

This isn't true, some of us have terrible personalities too.
It is fucking crazy that every time you look at someone you make their day worse and vice versa, I am so not used to this
Well as it may be, I consider you a good friend and someone who is a kind soul.

I am older and have had gall bladder cancer and now 24/7 chronic pain, REALLY bad pain today and you ARE family to/for me.

Everyone has their own perception(s) and that is what makes this whole existence so much better.

Walter
 
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wham311

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Mar 1, 2025
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Well as it may be, I consider you a good friend and someone who is a kind soul.

I am older and have had gall bladder cancer and now 24/7 chronic pain, REALLY bad pain today and you ARE family to/for me.

Everyone has their own perception(s) and that is what makes this whole existence so much better.

Walter
I would do anything to trade places with you walter.
 
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bankai

bankai

Visionary
Mar 16, 2025
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It is definitely unfair. But beautiful people don't have it easy either. When you get up in the morning, you aren't thinking about how good looking you are. You are just thinking about how to get through another day. I'm sure there are good looking people too on this site. Tell me this woman isn't pretty. Good looking husband, a kid, adventurous life and she still couldn't be happy. Ended up suiciding by not opening her parachute.



I honestly don't understand why beauty was created in reality in the first place. It should only be for those who have earned it. there is nothing that justify its existence.
Unfortunately. Beauty, talent and intelligence. These three things are just gifted to people upon birth. I hate it too. This is what makes life so unfair.

Also on the subject of unfair, how unfair is this?

 
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EvisceratedJester

EvisceratedJester

|| What Else Could I Be But a Jester ||
Oct 21, 2023
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Because there's no God only genetics
Attractiveness is more complex than just genetics alone. It is also in some parts dictated by factors, such as lifestyle, wealth, status, and current beauty standards. Even when it comes to objective measures of attractiveness, such as facial symmetry, the degree to which they factor into one's overall attractiveness might vary depending on where you live. I remember reading an article talking about how researchers found that facial symmetry seemed to be a stronger indicator of attractiveness for those part of an isolated tribe they were researching compared to those from the UK. It was thought that the reason why might be due to facial symmetry being an indicator of genetic quality, which would be something more important to take into consideration when looking for a partner within a tribe where the mortality rates are higher. Of course, these are just two cultures and more research would probably be needed on this, but this may indicate how environmental factors can also play a role in the degree to which universal indicators of attractiveness dictate our preferences.

The point is that attractiveness is complex and can be influenced by many factors beyond just genetics alone. Oftentimes, a lot of things come down to a complex mixture of genetics and environment and attractiveness is no exception to this.
 
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makebelieve

makebelieve

Member
Apr 19, 2022
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I got uglier because of my scars and i genuinely don't want to live anymore.
 
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wham311

Enlightened
Mar 1, 2025
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Basically anyone can be attractive if they dress well and are in shape, even if they are ugly. Even if very ugly

Man is this place impossible to live in when you look like this. No one will talk to you so there goes social skills and happiness. Can't work so there goes all of that and money and self esteem, purpose, everything. You eat bc theres nothing else to do and it makes you feel good for a second

Now you're fat and homeless and broke
 
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selosamu

New Member
Jun 27, 2025
1
Real. I got bullied in my school for being fat and ugly for all my life and it made me really suicidal.
 

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