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sportsguy56
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- Oct 24, 2020
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being a male that is only 5'6 makes me feel so insecure and inferior. it also sucks that so many women reject me just because of my height. I don't feel like a real man. I wish I was taller
I've come to realize that most women who are only concerned about height aren't worth the time anyway. If it makes you feel any better, I'm six feet tall and have still gone my whole life being a dateless virgin even at 28 years old. Being tall just ain't all it's cracked up to be because many tall people, at least those like me, only use their height as a crutch to make up for a lack of being good at anything else.being a male that is only 5'6 makes me feel so insecure and inferior. it also sucks that so many women reject me just because of my height. I don't feel like a real man. I wish I was taller
The list of male celebrities who are 5'6" and who have done very well with women is impressive: Ben Stiller, Billy Crystal, George Lucas, Phil Collins, Henry Winkler(the Fonz), Regis Philbin, and many more. It's a matter of how you carry yourself and what you do. You only need one girl to fall in love with to be happy, and your height will not prevent this at all.being a male that is only 5'6 makes me feel so insecure and inferior. it also sucks that so many women reject me just because of my height. I don't feel like a real man. I wish I was taller
I'm a bit envious, I could really use that extra 2", I'm only 5'4".being a male that is only 5'6 makes me feel so insecure and inferior. it also sucks that so many women reject me just because of my height. I don't feel like a real man. I wish I was taller
I think its also worth noting that when you're especially self concious of something and do your best to hide it, it often manifests more than if you just got on with things uninhibited. It shows to onlookers and they react accordingly which can drastically change relationships and perceptions. It's often described as a self fulfilling profecy which makes it sound a little more fantastical than its intended. Put simply, your insecurities and the way a person fights to hide them is a huge arrow pointing it out and serves to create an issue that would otherwise not exist. It's very liberating to fully grasp and accept this and more so it pays dividends when you throw off and say goodbye to insecurity. It shows in your smallest of actions, making them loud and bold and people subconsciously pick up on your liberated and confident demeanour. A good excercise in quick results from this would be (where appropriate) to publicly admit to being wrong in a situation where you might usually be guarded and defensive. Maybe arguing the toss on symantics for the sake of 'winning' an argument. Its something that's seen a lot on the forum and in people's day to day interactions. Particularly where the stakes feel high. In a professional setting for example. That's quite specific, I know but any public display of courage in the small stuff, embracing faults as though to better yourself. The results are instant. The person opposite will be disarmed (if initially agressive) and respond accordingly. You'll see something new in each other and they'll often come away with a new respect for you. Whether they know it or would publicly admit it is another thing but they will always treat you a little differently from there on. But only if you continue with your newly aquired understanding. Retuening to the old you, I assume goes without saying, would have the opposite impact.Another - Tom Cruise is 5'7". And, as a member of the female persuasion, self-confidence wipes out any "deficit" you might imagine. I have found that to be the case for pretty much anything that comes with first impression. Those traits disappear when a guy presents themself as not even seeming to notice it exists. BTW, it works in reverse, too. When a guy who appears to be beautiful and confident, but makes clear he is an asshole after talking for 30 seconds, is no longer of any interest. Poof. (The love of my life was 5' 6")