I've done both. Wage slaved for over a decade and pursued a career for a longer period. Still wage slavery ultimately but, at least I used to find more fulfilment from it. But yeah, I want out of the entire shit show now.
I have to agree that life can feel utterly ridiculous. Basically, a whole series of trying to dodge worser case scenarios! We're stuck being alive because hurting our loved ones feels like a bad scenario. But also, restricting methods to risky, unreliable ones means that the prospect of failing an attempt scares us into remaining here.
Those who don't have supportive families or don't qualify for welfare may also be frightened into wage slavery, or simply guilt tripped into it because, the alternative of destitution/ homelessness/ even disapproving relatives seems worse. But hell, what a low bar! Do things you detest to ensure things you may end up detesting more don't come to pass.
I have to agree with you. I really don't know what my parents were thinking conscripting me into this.