Are you a good human being?

[iCryInMySecretSpot]

I've been spending a lot of time thinking as to whether the world/my environment would be better off without me. I dont know if im a good person. I've hurt a lot of people through ghosting, tend to have very selfish thoughts, hate to admit it but am shallow when it comes to looks, and i have made choices that have hurt others. i also have an extremely weak personality and i am easily swayed. sometimes i also have fucked up thoughts even tho its stuff id never say/do.

but im also pretty friendly and try my best to help others. idk just smth i spent my evening pondering.

 

[whitetaildeer]

lol, no

 

[SoverignDreamer97]

Most men proclaim each his own goodness, but who can find a faithful man? (Proverbs 20:6)

I believe Suncha told me something similar when I told her my regrets, which was this:

"If you feel guilty and worry about not being a good person, then it's a sign that you are a good person, and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise; bad people don't think about such things, and instead justify themselves and their actions as righteous."

 

[Zura]

i am neither good nor bad i dont recall causing harm to anyone or having hurt anyone but i havent caused any good either i am just insignificant

 

[iCryInMySecretSpot]

Most men proclaim each his own goodness, but who can find a faithful man? (Proverbs 20:6)

I believe Suncha told me something similar when I told her my regrets, which was this:

"If you feel guilty and worry about not being a good person, then it's a sign that you are a good person, and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise; bad people don't think about such things, and instead justify themselves and their actions as righteous."

wow what a good quote. thanks, i needed this. ive been spiraling and blaming myself for everything

 

[LilGhost]

Id say you are good, bro. Its like, if you are worried you might be a psychopath: you probably arent. As long as you are not hateful against minorities

Spoiler: with exception of billionaires

(That is the only minority you need to be fighting against and the only minority that causes you harm)

and you dont cause malicious great harm (like you leak someone's nud es out of spite and on purpose) you arent a bad person. You try your best to help others and micro activism is a good thing

No human being is perfect, so as you. We all have different capacities. Its like with activism. Someone is able to go out on streets, someone donate money to charities, someone to volunteer, someone only sign petitions, someone can not boycott all companies on the list, but they do with those they are able to (Like go to Targe t because thats the only store near your house and you cant leave outside for long, but avoid star bucks). My point is... we all have different capabilities and the fact that you are doing something you are able to, already puts you in good people.
Proud of you as a human:)

 

[Green Destiny]

Deep down I'm not a good person, the only thing I can defend is that I've never hurt anyone on a physical or emotional level. But nothing is ever a guarantee.

 

[unluckysadness]

I voted "yes" because people think I'm a good person but I'm not that good. Anyway, nobody's perfect...

 

[Wishingfordeath]

I don't consider myself to be either, I think I'm a better person compared to when I was younger though.

 

[SackOfCrap445]

Im pretty selfish and ive caused tons of harm. I have diagnosed NPD and likely aspd. There is no world where i can connect with others safely, im a dangerous person at my core. its all only a matter of time before i die, i cant live without connection of some kind

 

[SASU-KE]

I'm a good,honest and normal human being when sober,

If I drink though

Worst part would be me remembering nothing about the stuff that happens when I'm drunk.
But as a result, I vowed never to drink again and have been keeping that promise to myself.

 

[Wojaczek]

yes and no

 

[SoverignDreamer97]

I voted "yes" because people think I'm a good person but I'm not that good. Anyway, nobody's perfect...

You've said it.

 

[A Sit of Doubting]

the tryst on categorizing urself to something as resolute as good and bad will never end. human beings r very much arbitrary, n its hard to not be in an impermanent state of self. we are all subject to change, n we can only get better. dont be too hard on yourself—we often discredit ourselves. most times, the cruelty we liken to ourselves doesn't match the cruelty we incite

 

[Pluto]

 

[tomame]

i'm an absolute menace to society

 

[dontwakemeup]

I was so excited to vote, "yes," until I read your options lol

 

[PainWorseThanDeath]

I dont have healthy thoughts bc I am obviously considering ctb.... but I know I'm a good person... better than most... and certainly better than the bigots that have placed me in the position to necessitate my ending my life to begin with.

I live my life trying to impart love and kindness to all I cross...

I do my best to make life better for those around me...

Society doesn't -want- people like me, though... it punishes them.

Goodness, kindness isnt rewarded in life... its merely made me a target of the selfish and cruel.

 

[LilGhost]

Good? Perhaps. Human being tho.....

 

[TraurigerClown]

Im the worst of all parasites called human beings

 

[buriedinmyhead]

I hope I am, I try my best to be...
Edit: except for all the thoughts of hurting myself lol

 

[neverexistedd]

I don't believe in concepts such as "good human being" or "bad human being", I believe they're too arbitrary and don't mean anything in this world

 

[sulvumnolo]

If all the things I've done come out here I'd be the first person ever bullied into suicide one a pro suicide forum

 

[violetforever]

i wouldnt really pick either option but i resonate with the no option more. i think im just more useless and annoying than bad.

 

[LonelyPrince]

I try to be a good person...that's all I can say. I don't like to flatter myself but I wouldn't say I'm the scum of the earth.

 

[tomame]

i'm a piece of shit faggot dodo bird bitch