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kkatt

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Nov 12, 2018
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I worked as an Escort for a while when I was younger. You should definitely use a well established site (Adultwork is very good).
This allows you to contact the lady and ask any questions or even briefly chat.
At least in this country,when you book time with one of these ladies,it is for the purpose of her company only. Anything further that might occur is between two consenting adults.This is something I had to remind a number of clients. And that I COULD call the police if I felt it was needed.
You may pay a little more than finding a girl on the street,but you will (usually) enjoy a comfortable environment and an unhurried experience.
Look for reviews left by other customers. Remember,you are almost certainly not going to be the only first timer she's ever met.
The majority of these ladies are professionals and they try to attract repeat clients,which is achieved by making the experience enjoyable and meeting your needs.
 
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TAW122

TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
6,852
I had no idea my country was so progressive in this as well. If you ever need a free place to stay for some days, then you're welcome. I have an empty room left. You can even hire a girl in your room as well. I don't live in A'dam but it's legal in the entire country.
I'm not able to travel at this point, I still need to earn more money, but thanks for letting me know about this. If I ever go to Europe someday (assuming life circumstances and shit doesn't push me to ctb before then), then I'll look into it. Also, in addition to staying on the 'legal' side of things (making it easier for myself), I also need to watch out for rip-offs or scams, especially given that social smarts and street smarts isn't my strong area.

As far as 'sex', I would say at least the basics (oral, anal, vaginal) (Note: I apologize if the last sentence is inappropriate, but I was just elaborating on what I mean by 'sex') would be sufficient for my experience. Duration would not be a big deal (half hour is good), but quality and the interaction is important for me (like being comfortable and not rushed).
 
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Idorus

Arcanist
Apr 30, 2018
426
As far as 'sex', I would say at least the basics (oral, anal, vaginal) (Note: I apologize if the last sentence is inappropriate, but I was just elaborating on what I mean by 'sex') would be sufficient for my experience. Duration would not be a big deal (half hour is good), but quality and the interaction is important for me (like being comfortable and not rushed).

Lol.. ok, I think I'm really coming from another era now. I'm almost 2 decades older than you and even having worked in the business myself decades ago (for which I'm way wayyyy too old and damaged nowadays) but reading this feels a bit like HUH HE WHAT? Is this really what you want for the very first time? : anal? oral? in half an hour?
Ok, let me pause lol .... the world has to be definitely changed in all those years living as a hermit ;) Back in the time we didn't have internet you know. Such wishes weren't part of our life. Plus it has all become ratrace as well... ow I think this is so sad. The definition of quality also seems to be changed. Ow really I have to process this. I don't even want to think about anal and I can hardly imagine a girl would allow it out of free will ....

Are there others from my generation here feeling the same?

@ so yes I have to conclude this is a very complex request and I think you will have to pay a lot of money IF you would find a girl who does this all in half an hour (or an hour or 2). I would really recommend taking a step back, don't expect too much.. it's your first time! There is so much to discover with intercourse only.. for which you need at least an hour to get a feel for it.
 
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TAW122

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Aug 30, 2018
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Lol.. ok, I think I'm really coming from another era now. I'm almost 2 decades older than you and even having worked in the business myself decades ago (for which I'm way wayyyy too old and damaged nowadays) but reading this feels a bit like HUH HE WHAT? Is this really what you want for the very first time? : anal? oral? in half an hour?
Ok, let me pause lol .... the world has to be definitely changed in all those years living as a hermit ;) Back in the time we didn't have internet you know. Such wishes weren't part of our life. Plus it has all become ratrace as well... ow I think this is so sad. The definition of quality also seems to be changed. Ow really I have to process this. I don't even want to think about anal and I can hardly imagine a girl would allow it out of free will ....

Are there others from my generation here feeling the same?

@ so yes I have to conclude this is a very complex request and I think you will have to pay a lot of money IF you would find a girl who does this all in half an hour (or an hour or 2). I would really recommend taking a step back, don't expect too much.. it's your first time! There is so much to discover with intercourse only.. for which you need at least an hour to get a feel for it.
Oh, ok, I might be expecting too much or overthinking it. Yeah maybe I can start out simpler and then work from that as a base. You seem to know much more than I do when it comes to this area so I'll take your word for it. Maybe just the standard, vaginal sex for a first timer, and I do apologize if my post sounds too pompous or arrogant as I have very little understanding in this field.
 
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Kikoo Loool

Kikoo Loool

Enlightened
Feb 25, 2019
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One hour is a minimum, but there's no problem to get anal and facial if you wishto!
 
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Carma

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Mar 3, 2019
37
You can start going for a massage with happy ending to get more confidence in yourself first.
 
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