Anyone else feel that leaving a note is humiliating?

[Close_to_freedom]

It's like admitting failure. I should do it for the sake of my parents, but i don't think I will.

 

[mathieu]

I don't really feel that it's humiliating anymore than suicide is.

 

[autumnal]

I don't really feel that it's humiliating anymore than suicide is.

Exactly this.

At the same time, don't feel obliged to leave a note for the sake of anyone else if it isn't also what you want to do.

 

[Brackenshire]

There is something in my phone. Says take no what ifs for yourself...i choose to keep my devils to myself.

 

[Close_to_freedom]

The problem is not leaving a note would be weird since my parents would one day just never hear from me again. My mom texts me like twice a month to check in.

 

[SpottedPanda]

I don't think it's humiliating. If a person goes so far to commit to dying of their own hand, a communication to loved ones isn't much of a stride further. It's only a message. I got emotional writing mine, but not through embarrassment. It was just a bit of sadness, feeling sentimental.

 

[InTheAirTonight]

I personally would never leave a note, mostly out of pride and spite. I can imagine all the ways it would be misinterpreted by people I hate. But I'm also a very private person and don't have any deep connections with people. So I'd rather let them draw their own conclusions. If they couldn't recognize my struggles after all these years then they don't deserve a note.

 

[LonelySoul]

I personally would never leave a note, mostly out of pride and spite. I can imagine all the ways it would be misinterpreted by people I hate. But I'm also a very private person and don't have any deep connections with people. So I'd rather let them draw their own conclusions. If they couldn't recognize my struggles after all these years then they don't deserve a note.

I can really relate to this.

 

[Jumper Geo]

I would leave a note just for closure and say goodbye and so they don't feel any guilt but everyone is different, if we were all the same the World would be a boring place.