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- May 21, 2021
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yes, this.I have and still do masturbate occasionally, though that's more like a hobby I actively decide to engage in
I'm not very concerned with finding labels for myself,
not what I meant.I'm involuntarily asexual and aromatic.
Do you fantasize while masturbating?It took me a long time to figure out I was aromantic a sexual because I thought being ace/around meant I couldn't enjoy any firm if sexual pleasure. but I do enjoy maturation using a vibrator, but I'd hate having sex or doing anything sexual with another person.
So it's not so much that you lack sexual desire as that your desire is weaker than your aversion to physical intimacy with other people.I do watch hentai.
That being said i think intimacy and loving sex is the most possible pleasurable event in any human being life. I done all kinds of drugs and physical and mental activities and they are very pleasurable but nothing get close enough to a good sex.I am aromantic naturally and lost my sex drive for the most part at 36
are you serious??! would you say that sex is more enjoyable than, say, meth?I done all kinds of drugs and physical and mental activities and they are very pleasurable but nothing get close enough to a good sex
So it's not so much that you lack sexual desire as
you just rephrased what I said lolIt took me a long time to figure out I was aromantic asexual because I thought being ace/aromantic I couldn't enjoy any form if sexual pleasure. but I do enjoy maturation using a vibrator, but I'd hate having sex or doing anything sexual with another person.
Oh yah sex is much greater in terms of pleasure. I have had sex on meth and it is something else entirely but i wouldnt even say meth is necessary to reach such a level of pleasure giving all the right circumstance and right partner (mutual attraction and good experience) are involved.are you serious??! would you say that sex is more enjoyable than, say, meth?
Being aromantic i dont think it means people who cant fall in love. In my case being aromantic is like I dont feel the necessity of all the cheesy lovy dovy things like too much PDA, saying i love you 20 times a day, telling each other how great we are blah blah blah, romantic stuff basically dont appeal to me. I still fall in love and have the same needs for intimacy though. I just dont feel the need for it to become like I have to conjure up a distinct romantic personality and change just because i am with someone i love. I dont know if that makes senseI'm asexual but not aromantic. I envy people who are also aromantic. I've suffered a lot on the romantic part in my life. If there was a potion to have no more romantic feelings towards anyone, to never fall in love again and to never desire it I'd take it in a heartbeat.
what about people who had sex and say it's overrated? There are plenty of people who say that, although mostly women.Oh yah sex is much greater in terms of pleasure. I have had sex on meth and it is something else entirely but i wouldnt even say meth is necessary to reach such a level of pleasure giving all the right circumstance and right partner (mutual attraction and good experience) are involved.
The most possible pleasurable feelings are experienced through a good intimate sex
fr. and it's even considered acceptable. It only confirm the Electra complex.that being said i think calling your lover daddy in recent years is the most disturbing gross trend. Just saying
If there was a potion to have no more romantic feelings towards anyone, to never fall in love again and to never desire it I'd take it in a heartbeat.
I think it is alot of factors that lead to it one of them is boredom too. We can still be bored of the best things in life eventually. I havent been sexually active in years so I only sparingly had partners throughout my life and that was my experience. Maybe when someone have sex all the time or have one partner for long time they get bored? I dont have the luxury to tellwhat about people who had sex and say it's overrated? There are plenty of people who say that, although mostly women.
It's like that for me too. I'd rather be comfortable materialistically than emotionally fulfilledThat doesn't mean I don't have thoughts or can't be tempted. Just that it doesn't occupy my thoughts.
Perhaps it's my autism or being a neglected only child. I don't require emotional fulfillment. I don't easily get attached either. Sometimes I would like to, but I don't.It's like that for me too. I'd rather be comfortable materialistically than emotionally fulfilled
same.Perhaps it's my autism or being a neglected only child. I don't require emotional fulfillment. I don't easily get attached either. Sometimes I would like to, but I don't.
Interesting... Many times I've had a nonromatic asexual 'best friend', guy or girl, and they were always more important than the sexual relationships I would be in.I'm not against the idea of having a partner and our relationship would be mostly like a deep friendship, I guess I have no reason to mind if it's with a man or a woman.
I mean I'm not born this way but I have to force myself to be ace&aro in order to maintain my sanity.not what I meant.
That's not what these terms mean. One cannot force themselves to be aromantic or asexual. You can try to suppress your romantic and sexual desires, maybe that's what you mean. But being aro/ace means that you simply don't have these desires in the first place.I have to force myself to be ace&aro